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Hey guys. I'm just wandering if I could get as many different opinions as possible -- both Cadets and Parents of Cadets.
I've been reading through some of the threads, and some people say "it was easier without my parents there at I-Day." I've gone to certain programs where there is an "intense" atmosphere out-of-state, and have flown by myself or with a friend. No problem. I know I'll see my parents in a couple of weeks.
But now my parents say that they want to be there, and according to their research, there will be close to 100% of parents there. They want to be present, but I'm thinking that I get "into the zone" better if I travel by myself. That's how I've always worked.
Do you guys think that it'll be different for I-Day? Now, I know it's different. But do you think it's legit if an Appointee wants to go by themselves, or should I just let my parents come so that they can have "whatever closure they want?"
Any input would be greatly appreciated.
I've been reading through some of the threads, and some people say "it was easier without my parents there at I-Day." I've gone to certain programs where there is an "intense" atmosphere out-of-state, and have flown by myself or with a friend. No problem. I know I'll see my parents in a couple of weeks.
But now my parents say that they want to be there, and according to their research, there will be close to 100% of parents there. They want to be present, but I'm thinking that I get "into the zone" better if I travel by myself. That's how I've always worked.
Do you guys think that it'll be different for I-Day? Now, I know it's different. But do you think it's legit if an Appointee wants to go by themselves, or should I just let my parents come so that they can have "whatever closure they want?"
Any input would be greatly appreciated.