I would think a lot of those gifts were staples sent with the cadet to college.
I would suggest:
1. Extra pr of blues, at least the shirt.
~~~ I am sure he has not returned home yet for T-Day, but if he brings his clothes home, and is like our DS, you will notice ring around the collar.
~~~ Additionally upon graduation, they have the option of paying for that ROTC uniform, or buying a new set. If you buy a few shirts, and pants, each yr, by the time he graduates he will have his set and will not have to buy the one he has had for his entire ROTC career.
2. White tee shirts.
~~~ They wear out quickly
3. Shirt garter
~~~ This is an item that will allow the shirt to remain taut and not ride up while they are sitting.
~~~ Most 100's don't know about them prior to arriving.
4. Frogs
~~~ Great stocking stuffer. They get lost all the time when the kids remove them to wash their shirt. They are the small gold clips that hold their name tag and ribbons in place.
5. Black dress socks
~~~ Even as adults we know you put 4 socks in, and only 3 come out.
6. Gift certificate for the dry cleaner near the campus.
7. Sneakers
~~~ He may have decided the sneaks he went to school with don't work real well for PT.
8. Hair razor/trimmer.
~~~ Along the lines of money making/saving ideas. They get their haircut at least every few weeks, and if they are like our kid, it is almost a buzz cut. The guys will always find one guy that has it and he does it for them for @ 5 bucks or a pizza! Cheaper than going to a barber every 2 weeks.
9. The biggie
~~~ If he wants to go rated, and has never flown, by him 1 hour of flight time at the local airport. Usually they have pilot schools there. This will allow him to do 1 of 2 things:
A. Decide it is his dream --- great motivation for keeping those grades up
B. Decide it isn't his dream --- allowing him to start looking at the AF differently for his career path.
Finally I have made a tradition of every yr buying a Xmas ornament related to the school, or the AF. Here is a link to
http://www.cafepress.com/+air-force+ornaments . They sell them for other branches too. Their quality is nice, the ornaments are unique and the prices are good.
I do this because I remember being a newlywed to an AF officer and our 1st Xmas was in the UK, I had no family ornaments, and that made me miss home during the holidays. This way when he gets married, I will send them to him, and a part of us will be with him.
Happy holidays. Hope that helps.