goaliedad said:
You should find out about the specifics of how a campus unit operates (not all are alike) and get a feel for the underclassmen in the unit (who will be your leaders when you arrive). In our experience, meeting with the current cadets gives a good view as to how your experience will be even more than the cadre who may or may not still be there when you arrive (typical rotations are 3 years for cadre officers). The cadets are also a reflection of the influence of the cadre.
1000% agree.
Colleges and cadres all have their unique feel, the only way to get a glimpse is by meeting other cadets within the unit.
My suggestion has never changed because I believe in it with every fiber of my body.
Contact the unit and set up a time during that visitation day. Ask if you can meet with cadets/mids that are upperclassman, in your case MSIII/IV.
Trust me, we have done so many college visits with our 3, I can assure you that if the group starts with 20 by the time it ends it will have 10. Nobody on the tour is taking attendance. If the unit has only 1 certain time to fit you in, and it means walking away from the tour after 30 mins. walk away.
Seriously, a dorm room looks like a dorm room and no student should use that as their deciding factor in selection.
Once at the unit, have your folks sit with the CC for a few minutes, but after that plan to find a different meeting place on campus 45-60 minutes later.
I believe this is important because cadets with parents around will do the dog and pony show, minding Ps and Qs. Parents with all their best intentions will ask questions that you probably could care less about.
I also say this because during the tour you are in a group, you are wearing a flashing light on you saying HS kid! It is not a true representation of what it will be like next fall from a mental image.
Walking the campus by yourself, taking to cadets by yourself allows you a few minutes to visualize next yr when you will be there by yourself. There will be no flashing light on you saying HS kid. You will look and feel just like any other student there.
It really is amazing how this can impact your decision. What was your #1 school on the web and during the tour may become your #5 because it just wasn't doing it for you as much as the number 3 school did.
Our DS's 1 & 2 changed their list because of the visits. Our cousin's DS changed his, a school he wanted since he was 6. All because of the vibe.