Just For The Parents
In a few short days, there will be triumph for those who are lucky enough to win a BFE. But there will many more who will not. When my DS received his TWE in the mail, it was the darkest days of his young life. I just want the parents to be prepared for that moment. My DS had his pity party, I gave him space, and I too felt sorrow and stained the floor with a tear knowing he alone had to suffer. I watched him break a few things that were dear and knew he would regret that emotional pothole. When he could manage to lift his head again he spent time with me. I would watch the ocean spray come over the bow and clean his sweet face on tug. His beautiful sweet face, with his mother’s eyes slowly came back and again the fire returned inside those eyes. A smile finally broke, like the sun over the morning horizon beginning to warm the day.
I know, so many of these kids work almost their whole lives preparing and waiting as my DS . I had some of the deepest conversation about life goals and setting sail for them with him. If he had not received the prep school opportunity he would have gone on with Plan B and C. But he took a deep breath and would try again. I know if he doesn’t get accepted for Class of 2017 this will be the end of it. I hope he doesn’t seek that dark place again. I feel his growing maturity will push him forward to big adventures again.
Setting new goals and looking forward will help the recovery. As many of you know, your DS/DD are the most exceptional of souls to chase this dream. Its stunning to me how bright their future and the opportunities that await them. Never miss a moment to let them know how important, how beautiful they are and how much you love them.
Before I hit send, I’ll let you know something, I’m a little afraid.
Thank you, good luck!
Push Hard, Press Forward
Unanimity is a comfort.
