Why must we always throw this stuff in?
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Because it is true. A couple of thoughts would include it is a military college you can expect there will be a dress code even in summer school. Also, if you don't think cadre or the RDC will be aware of this stuff then you are fooling yourselves. Which leads to some advice for STP (I went to STP and later served as a counselor and the cadet in charge of the counselors there several years ago) STP can be a great program. However, there is always a select population who tag themselves for focused attention when the rat-line begins. This population included the underage drinkers while living in barracks, the guys who think they can backtalk an upperclassmen or the overly arrogant or cocky. Additionally, the types who think they know it all tend to get shut down quickly. You have gotten some great advice on here and on the Financial Aid forum from VMI82, the correct response would have been thank you sir rather than your animated defense. You didn't hit disrespect by any standard except for those of a rat and I can tell you there is a significant Executive Committee penalty for disrespect to alumni (Think 4 months of marching and 60 hours but its been a few years). I'll leave you with some final words you'll be forced to commit to memory in a few months
The Code of a VMI Cadet
“Without a strict observance of the fundamental Code of Honor, no man, no matter how `polished,’ can be considered a gentleman. The honor of a gentleman demands the inviolability of his word, and the incorruptibility of his principles. He is the descendant of the knight, the crusader; he is the defender of the defenseless and the champion of justice . . . or he is not a Gentleman.
A Gentleman . . .
Does not discuss his family affairs in public or with acquaintances.
Does not speak more than casually about his girl friend.
Does not go to a lady’s house if he is affected by alcohol. He is temperate in the use of alcohol.
Does not lose his temper; nor exhibit anger, fear, hate, embarrassment, ardor or hilarity in public.
Does not hail a lady from a club window.
A gentleman never discusses the merits or demerits of a lady.
Does not mention names exactly as he avoids the mention of what things cost.
Does not borrow money from a friend, except in dire need. Money borrowed is a debt of honor, and must be repaid as promptly as possible. Debts incurred by a deceased parent, brother, sister or grown child are assumed by honorable men as a debt of honor.
Does not display his wealth, money or possessions.
Does not put his manners on and off, whether in the club or in a ballroom. He treats people with courtesy, no matter what their social position may be.
Does not slap strangers on the back nor so much as lay a finger on a lady.
Does not `lick the boots of those above’ nor `kick the face of those below him on the social ladder.’
Does not take advantage of another’s helplessness or ignorance
and assumes that no gentleman will take advantage of him.
A Gentleman respects the reserves of others, but demands that others respect those which are his.
A Gentleman can become what he wills to be. . .”