My DD had been aiming for EOD since she was about 13 years old. Three of my kids are Sea Cadets and we had the good fortune to attend a luncheon with (then) CNO Admiral Greenert, and he spoke of SEALs being in the process of opening to women. My DD then set her sights on SEALs. The physical standards are very close for EOD and SEALs. Will my DD make it? I don't know, but she's been training for the past 2 years and is confident she can.
The Navy, as all Services do, will approach this very methodically. As they did with submarine warfare opening to women in 2010, at USNA and other commissioning sources I believe there will be briefings, mentoring groups, etc. There will be physical "screeners" during junior year. Any missteps will be scrutinized. There will be a process laid out. For now, your DD should concentrate on staying fit, and aiming to be a PT beast, and wherever she lands for her pre-commissioning path, focus on being the one of the top performers - if not the #1 - in academics, military performance, leadership, conduct - and PT. The Navy will skim the top all-around performers to get that first handful. All-around is KEY. Athletic prowess is most definitely a big part, but shining in all areas is a minimum. We had a USNA sponsor daughter go EOD. She was a very strong swimmer and ran varsity XC. Natural athlete, system eng major, had significant leadership positions. Respected by peers. The one physical thing that nearly got her was the one-armed moving boat pick-up, where you swing yourself aboard. She doubled-down on core strength, upper body and grip strength. Think American Ninja and CrossFit. After graduation, and before she reported to EOD pipeline, she ran and swam miles, hiked with weight packs, lifted, but also did Pilates, yoga, flexibility and balance training, did workouts on little sleep, and learned meditative techniques to help her breathe, focus and get mentally tough. It's the last thing that usually gets people when the physical reserves are used up. She did just fine in the EOD pipeline and is successful as an EOD officer.
To sum up, aim at being a "top mid," and that is the best shot at getting through doors just cracking open.