Moreen,
Sounds like you have been through this process a few times, sure ask anything you like, I will do my best to answer or try and direct you to someone who can help. I have a younger son that is currently a MS2 and a son that graduated and commissioned last May as well. Anything I can do to help, I'll try. You can either use the PM or this message option, or you can email me at jcleppe@aol.com. Congratulations to your son, what branch did your daughter commission.
Thanks,
Jeff