As Hornet stated our DS will not be tracking for a few more weeks. Tracking is when you find out if you are going fighters, helos or heavies. In April he will have assignment night. That is where you find out your airframe.
As much as everyone will pound in your cranium how long the days are, and how little time you will have to socialize, people don't get it until they are there. Our DS was an F15E WSO dependent. It is seriously a lot of hard work, with ups and downs. Mentally your mind has to be in the game every single solitary day. If you have a bad sortie, you need to shrug it off and believe it was that one only sortie. Otherwise, you will never recover.
As an example, as fun as the cross country might be, it also means 12 full days of non-stop work. You come back on Sunday after a weekend of mission planning and you go back up in the air on Monday. Our DS actually due to weather cancels has been doing double turns this week. Again sound like fun, but it is a long day and as soon as you land/done with the debrief you are mission planning for tomorrow. Repeat the same thing the next day.
As Stealth stated show your desire. I know our DS has been in the squadron on Sat. I know he has studied with his classmates. We literally talk to our DS 1x a week for maybe 10-15 mins. As a parent that was hard to get accustomed to at first, but when you realize that if they are calling in the middle of the week it is rarely good news, than you are happy for the Sunday 10-15 min call.
Finally, you are not even clearing hurdle number 1 yet....an apptmt. There are so many hurdles in front of you, that you should place this on the back burner for now. Enter the AFA with an open mind of the limitless opportunities in front of you.
I.E. I am betting if you asked Hornet or CC's DS if Rand was on his scope at 17 they would have said no. I am also positive that it was not an easy decision for them to delay UPT for the Rand opportunity.
Delaying basically means WIC and probably TPS are not in their future at all, due to the fact that when eligible they will be much older. Hornet is a 10 AFA grad. He will be probably a 15-01 or 02 UPT grad, and by the time he has his 1st tour done, he will be an O4, or up for an O4 board. At that point he needs to think about making O5, and PME in residence, thus he will need to have a leadership job, not being a student again.
You see, if you are successful at AFA, than other doors open, more so than AFROTC. However, opening that door can close another later on. It is just not as easy as one may think. I believe Hornet knows a few classmates that took ED with a UPT follow on, but in the end they asked to have their follow on changed and never went to UPT. I am betting they too thought at 17 that the 22 or 35 was their dream, but the point is they kept their mind open to other opportunities. Not saying you aren't.
Just saying at 17 you see movies like Top Gun and think that is the life, when in reality it is nothing further from the truth. Yes, the flying part maybe, but when you are not flying you are working a desk job. You may fly 2 times a week, the other 3 is flying a desk. To make it to O5 you will have a desk job, you will chair fly, even as a fighter guy 5 days a week it will be at a desk most likely. The 3 O4s at SJAFB that flew F15Es and not picked up for O5, never stepped out of the airframe.
The fact is nobody here can predict what UPT will look like in 2018, let alone how many fighters will drop in 2019. Plus, one thing to understand when you track fighters is they all don't start with an F. AC130, B52, B1 also come out of the drops. You have to be willing to accept any airframe.
OBTW, just FYI in case you get the TWE. AFROTC also gives out ENJJPT slots. DS did not ask for ENJJPT when he requested rated, however 2 of the cadets in his det. got ENJJPT. They don't give out at the rate of the AFA, but they do indeed give out.
DS's commissioning class had 13 that requested rated. All got pilot, but 2 (1 RPA, 1 CSO-eyes). Currently, out of the 13, 2 have already been washed out or washed back at UPT. The 2 that washed back or out occurred within weeks of starting UPT at their bases.
In DS's UPT class. 4 or 5 are already gone out of a start class of 30. The 1st was gone within a matter of weeks. Busted academics, and never got in the plane. He was an AFA grad. The wash back was an AFROTC grad for busting the PT test. The last 2 were 1 and 1, AFA and AFROTC during the check ride phase about a month ago. The 5th either washed back or washed out, I can't recall. Didn't ask DS if they were AFA/AFROTC. Point is you can see in the UPT world they are equal opportunity when it comes to busting students. They don't care if you have a ring or not.
My final suggestion is if you do not have a PPL, get one now. AF allows UPT students to waive IFS (this is a school you go to at Pueblo prior to UPT) if the student has a PPL.
Hornet and I were discussing this the other day. There are two schools of thought regarding whether a student should request a waiver.
1. Don't waive it because you will graduate, and it will get you use to the AF way of teaching/grading. Additionally the controls are not the same as any old Cessna or Piper.
2. Do because IFS exists to bust students prior to UPT. Why take the risk?
JMPO, and now take that 0.0197543 cents and throw it in the circular filing cabinet.