To our OP: I most strongly suggest you change your screen name to something with some anonymity. Might I suggest "Steeler Fan," "Bleed Black & Gold," or similar. If you look carefully, while maybe ten people actually "converse" with you here, there are many hundreds of people who will look up your name i n all kinds of social media.
I already have dibs on "Bleed Black and Gold"!!
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