Work the process, hope for a waiver if DQ, that is all you can do. It is indeed healthy for any individual to get help when they need it.
The way to think about this is utilitarian, not from the individual’s POV, but the unit. The military medical accession bar is set very high. Military people routinely work in harsh, harsh operating environments, often remote and far from advanced medical care. High stress. High pressure. Relentless. Sleep deprivation. Physical danger from many sources. Some of the worst working conditions humans can endure. The safety of the unit is paramount, and the safety of the unit often depends on everyone being physically and mentally able to do their jobs and contribute. That’s why the military looks for people who are the least vulnerable to illness, injury or recurrence of past conditions. In “normal” life, these people can carry on just fine. High op tempo evolutions in or near a combat zone, or even the pressure cooker of a service academy, might be a hairsbreadth too much. Utilitarianism: the good of the many outweighs the good of the few.