Lawman32RPD
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Our daughter is a senior in high school. She has applied to a number of colleges including VMI and Texas A&M (where she says she would join the Corps of Cadets). She has visited VMI twice and done the overnight. She has also visited A&M. Right now she is, of course, sweating which colleges will accept her. She is not a Texas resident. She lives in Virginia where I was on long term detail. I have returned to the border but as it was her senior year it didn't seem like the time to move so she and her mother and brother have remained in Northern Virginia. She has a 3.1 GPA, 27 Composite on the ACT; 1,890 combined best score on the SAT's; a number of 3's and 4's on various AP tests; Vice President of her class in Sophomore Year, and President in both Junior Year and Senior Year. She was selected to attend the Hugh O'Brian Youth Leadership (HOBY); President of the Model UN club for a couple of years; Manger of the Varsity Football Team for three years, does "Throws" (Shotput) for Track.
I don't have the requisite experience provide her with any substantive guidance on the following issue. She is 17 and inclined (perhaps we all are) to put the cart before the horse. Right now I think she is putting the cart several hundred yards before the horse.
She wants to go to law school and subsequently be a JAG. She understands that if she went to VMI she'd take ROTC for four years, and if she went to A&M she'd take ROTC for the first two years - and then decide if she wanted to pursue a commission with the final two years of ROTC. She says that she should pursue a reserve commission and assignment - by that I mean an assignment with a Guard or Reserve unit rather than serve on active (full time) duty before going to law school. My advice to her has been to worry first about which schools she will attend; then decide if she wants to go to a SMC (assuming she is admitted to one); then decide if she wants to participate in an ROTC program assuming she didn't go to a SMC; then do well in college- and to worry about the rest of it as she gets a bit closer (which of course assumes she actually finishes high school too).
In other words, she is 17 and while it is good to have a goal - there is no need to set her plans in concrete. I mean "life happens" and if you want to see the Almighty laugh, tell him your plans. I have told that right now she needs to see if this is a lifestyle and committment she is comfortable with assuming and the rest she can decide later when there is a need to actually decide something. Modesty prevents me from recounting her pithy response.
I would certainly appreciate any guidance and counseling ya'll might be able to provide. I don't know enough about the various iterations of reserve status and committments, the ability to defer a service obligation in order to attend law school, and whatever other issues in my ignorance I have overlooked or don't know enough to ask the appropriate questions about.
Please accept my thanks in advance for your attention and assistance.
Respectfully:
Lawman32RPD
I don't have the requisite experience provide her with any substantive guidance on the following issue. She is 17 and inclined (perhaps we all are) to put the cart before the horse. Right now I think she is putting the cart several hundred yards before the horse.
She wants to go to law school and subsequently be a JAG. She understands that if she went to VMI she'd take ROTC for four years, and if she went to A&M she'd take ROTC for the first two years - and then decide if she wanted to pursue a commission with the final two years of ROTC. She says that she should pursue a reserve commission and assignment - by that I mean an assignment with a Guard or Reserve unit rather than serve on active (full time) duty before going to law school. My advice to her has been to worry first about which schools she will attend; then decide if she wants to go to a SMC (assuming she is admitted to one); then decide if she wants to participate in an ROTC program assuming she didn't go to a SMC; then do well in college- and to worry about the rest of it as she gets a bit closer (which of course assumes she actually finishes high school too).
In other words, she is 17 and while it is good to have a goal - there is no need to set her plans in concrete. I mean "life happens" and if you want to see the Almighty laugh, tell him your plans. I have told that right now she needs to see if this is a lifestyle and committment she is comfortable with assuming and the rest she can decide later when there is a need to actually decide something. Modesty prevents me from recounting her pithy response.
I would certainly appreciate any guidance and counseling ya'll might be able to provide. I don't know enough about the various iterations of reserve status and committments, the ability to defer a service obligation in order to attend law school, and whatever other issues in my ignorance I have overlooked or don't know enough to ask the appropriate questions about.
Please accept my thanks in advance for your attention and assistance.
Respectfully:
Lawman32RPD