Does anyone have any personal experience with the chaplains at the Academy? My husband was given a card on I-day with a phone number and unfortunately, I had to call today to see if someone could tell DS that his best friend's mom died this morning. Does a chaplain tell him privately and give some time to recover? Is he given any time to write the family? We were torn about telling him, but didn't want him to find out from someone else. Your thoughts and experiences in this regard would be greatly appreciated.