I love reading all these stories. Brings back such memories... my son is a 1/C in 2co. I have nothing to add but to tell you that the kiddos will be just fine if you don't send them all the correct stuff. The kids will just LOVE getting anything from home.
and yeah, the PC's will find ways to break the rules, but that is the chance they are willing to take, kinda like chosing your battles. I know I stressed over him breaking the "rules", but if that 10 min cat nap is what he needed, and he was willing to accept the punishment if he was caught, who was I to tell him what to do... but it took me a while to accept all of this.
I remember one young man last year who slept in his bottom drawer to avoid sleeping in his bed and havin' to remake his bed.... to me that is crazy, but just one more story that I will cherrish.
And beat retreat should not be missed, it will be hot and hot and hot, and add some humidity, lots of humidity. So bring your hand fan. And it will be loud. Those bagpipes in an enclosed area... VERY VERY VERY loud!