My DS is in the process of filling out his AROTC scholarship app for 2016. He has an informal meeting with the ROO at his first choice school on Tues. When do I excuse myself from the meeting so they can speak alone, or do I stay the whole time? Also,my oldest DS is a Captain at FT. Bragg and their father is a Colonel USAR on active duty should my DS mention this at the meeting? I'm not sure how help him with this because he wants to make sure this is about him and his goals. He is very proud of his Dad and brother for their service to our country and it is also a path he has chosen.