I sometimes find myself alone on an island...This may be one of those times...
These are my personal thoughts....no reflection on what anyone else does feel or should feel.
I dont like the recognition...at all. It makes me uncomfortable and I dont know what to say without sounding...you know...
For my 1st son's usna apt and for my 2nd son's 4 yr rotc scholarship to a wildly over priced school...I was just grateful that my two kiddos got where they wanted to be, they get a cool job after they graduate, and so far I have almost a half a million more in my retirement.
I feel so lucky that I am almost uncomfortable by it...especially when I see others working as hard as my two did who didn't get so lucky. Follow the "still in the game" thread...
Our school doesn't recognize ....and honestly, I was glad for it...
Well, I've just joined you on this island! (Well, stated by the way.)