how do you deal with stress

Fortunately for my son, we live in a very Pro-Military state. And there's an Air Force base in our town. So military and Air Force is quite respected. Even by the jokers who use to give the B.S. line of; "We support the troops, but we don't support the decision for them to be in the middle east". That's like saying you support the players for a certain football team, but you don't support the coach. ANYWAY; as I mentioned earlier, we've had a lot of the silly questions from people who didn't know the academy was a legitimate university.

But a lot of people who really didn't understand, took notice at my son's senior class awards night. They gave out pretty much every award to whatever seniors were receiving them. E.g. athletics, gpa, attendance, and anything else they could think of. The last part was bringing up every senior who had received a college scholarship. Now our state university has a pretty good scholarship program for in-state students. Different dollar amounts depending on your gpa. So there were obviously quite a few students going to our State U. But then we had the others. One to Michigan State, one to Tulane, One to Princeton, One to USC, etc... And they mentioned each scholarship. Some were partials and some full rides. They only mentioned dollar amounts. When they mentioned my son going to the Air Force Academy; and then mentioned a scholarship value of $350,000+ (Can't remember the exact amount); you could hear a lot of oooooos, and ahhhhhhhs. And afterwards during the reception, there was definitely a different attitude among some of those who didn't understand earlier.

But this doesn't really help the OP when comparing different service academies. If you really have a lot of people giving you these stupid comments and asking why; and you really want the easy way out so you don't have to deal with it; just tell them you want to be a pilot and fly C-5's or F-15. Tell them if you wanted to fly a chopper or drive a tank, you'd have gone to West Point. And if you wanted to get sea sick, you would have joined the Navy or Coast Guard or Merchant Marines. They don't have to know the real reasons. And personally; if they're going to ask such judgmental questions with absolutely no respect, then they don't deserve the truth. later... mike....
 
ya, i get that ALOT. When i tell people that im going to USAFA and leaving for Basic in late June, everyone thinks im enlisting....i used to enjoy telling everyone what the USAFA actually was, and i still do but the number of people that have NO IDEA what the USAFA actually is is just ridiculous! lol. truth be told, i had do idea what it was or even existed for that matter until sophomore year! haha. cant wait :thumb:
 
"The academy is in colorado springs."

"Oh, well where are you going for college after that?"

"There"

"Colorado springs has a college?"

This is probably the biggest response i get! lol. People have no idea that i am going to college!!! haha. most people think im just enlisting and waiting later for college! Thats when i sigh to myself, thinking i really don't want to have this conversation.....FOR THE THOUSANDTH TIME! hahahha.
 
so i totally thought this would be about how cadets deal with stress.. misleading title!

anyway, i think we all get the same jealous comments. be glad you're not a girl though; sometimes my classmates are impressed, other times they spend an entire class period looking up afa assault scandals...
 
so i totally thought this would be about how cadets deal with stress.. misleading title!

anyway, i think we all get the same jealous comments. be glad you're not a girl though; sometimes my classmates are impressed, other times they spend an entire class period looking up afa assault scandals...

lol. yes it is. Glad I'm not the only one this stuff happens to.
 
[que Academy Chicken "college party" skit]

Yep, you get used to the most frequent questions. There will always be a couple comments you never see comming. Oh well...
 
You guys are all lucky. When I got back from my visit from USNA I went to school on Monday and left early b/c I came down with mono. Visit to the Naval Academy combined with a kissing disease means I get made fun of at least once a day for it, but they always follow it with "we're just kidding and you're really cool for doing what you're doing."
 
You guys are all lucky. When I got back from my visit from USNA I went to school on Monday and left early b/c I came down with mono. Visit to the Naval Academy combined with a kissing disease means I get made fun of at least once a day for it, but they always follow it with "we're just kidding and you're really cool for doing what you're doing."

hahaha. I've never had mono (crosses fingers, a friend was diagnosed with it yesterday), but was under the impression it took 4-10 weeks for the symptoms to show... Thus eliminating USNA as a source of said mono.
 
Oh it definitely does take that long but that is irrelevant when you're making jokes like that. Its all in fun, I know, so its not that bad, I just have to sit and take it.
 
3 people down the hall from me have mono now. Oh joy! If I'm lucky, I'll have it during Beast!

:thumbdown:
 
Rereading chipshandon's post and his previous posts, and considering his decision to go to WP, I am beginning to feel like that he is mocking the USAFA.
 
he probably is. sad that he has to result to online forums for entertainment on a pretty productive and worthwhile site.



to get to the question, everyone has there own techniques. personally, i use prayer and friends from church when i get really stressed. i also call home or will play video games for a little bit to get away from things for a while. biggest thing i think, though, is talking to other people about it
 
just jumping in as I saw the title and thought it might be interesting. I get stuff about uscga, particularly because a friend is a 4/c there now and was deemed "socially awkward" in high school. When I tell people I'm going to the cga, I get the following responses:
'oh, so when do you leave for cape may?'
'why would you do that to yourself?'
'have fun in Iraq'
And many degrading against the military jokes...keep in mind I live 10 minutes away from mcguire afb..and my parents are both retired AF who still work for the AF. The worst is when people think I'm enlisting (not that there's anything wrong with that) and then I have to explain that the cga is like WP or the naval academy.
 
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