USAFA83GradWife
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He did in the fall and seemed so much happier then. Now he just seems like he is in shut down mode. He seems incredibly angry and cynical. He is a pilot and isn't even interested in flying right now. Truth be told, I fear he is depressed. I have urged him to contact a counselor there before he decides but he just keeps telling me he needs to get out asap. As hard as it is for me to see him walk away from all the opportunities he would have there I think I need to let go. He's a fun loving , kind and talented kid who has amazing potential. He has supportive friends at home but truly feels he will not be missed once he is gone from the Academy. I find this hard to believe but it might just go back to the fact that the military is not for everyone. I still feel like something happened over the last few months that I don't understand. I'll keep you posted as to what transpires after he returns tomorrow. Thanks again. I really appreciate all your supportive words.
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I wouldn't recommend he go to his AOC with depression. The right place(s) are to seek out a chaplain or go to the Peak Performance Center (PPC). They will counsel for up to 3 sessions without making it a part of their record. I know several cadets who went this route and it helped them quite a bit. Just having someone to chat with that understands completely what you're going through will help. Take Zampstamp up on his offer. I think he and your son may be able to help each other out & its nice to have someone to talk to that is going through the same issues.
If your son is still considering Form 34, he will be counseled to ensure that it is the right course for him. This isn't a "sign the paperwork and leave" process. USAFA understands the ups and downs of cadet life and tries to help with this decision.