Two years ago, DS received a rejection from NROTC one week and a TWE from USNA the next. His recruiter advised him to reapply for the NROTC Scholarship, as you have been advised to do. DS was also pursuing a reapplication to USNA. NROTC told him NOT to join the unit at his college and, in fact, told him specifically that he couldn't join the unit and be an applicant for NROTC Scholarship. NROTC also advised him NOT to join the unit as a college programmer. USNA, on the other hand, advised him that his performance in NROTC in college would be beneficial to his re-ap. Since USNA was his first choice, he went off to college and joined the unit as a college program participant. Loved the unit so much that he dropped his re-ap within a week.
That said, it is TOUGH to get a scholarship through the college program. DS is #1 in his NROTC class and has been every semester since he started. He also has a 3.9 gpa in mechanical engineering. The CO and others in his unit are as frustrated as we are--he is still without a scholarship and is nearing the end of his Sophomore year. Hopefully, the awards ceremony tomorrow will be a joyous occasion for us!
Kat