gridironkid,
I am a parent of a 17 and 19 year old. I am well aware of the seemingly insurmountable tasks that young people face with their education and career choices. When my own children are doing nothing but talking about the challenges they face and the barriers they are encountering, my wife and I are both quick to cut them off and encourage them to be "problem solvers".
As other have pointed out here, you are taking the initiative. You realize the hurdle. That is more than most will even take on. Now you need to solve your problem. You may need to compromise or find a work around, but there are solutions.
You are fortunate to be in Virginia as there are many great state schools with ROTC and not one, but two SMS schools (VPI and VMI). You mentioned being in community college, I was wondering have you been accepted into Virginia Tech? That is a task in itself, especially if you are choosing engineering.
Does it sound as if I am coming across as a scolding parent? Good, because that is my intention. Many knowledgeable and experienced long term posters have taken the time to guide and encourage you on your journey. Take the time to reread their words and inspirational messages. I think you will find that many of their contributions deserved a simple thank you.
Best wishes in your endeavors.
