armydaughter
5-Year Member
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- Apr 18, 2012
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just wanted to state one pet peeve about this site...
It seems like most people that post on here are concerned parents of the kids that are applying.
I dont understand why they are taking a hand in the application!
shouldnt the applicants be asking the questions themselves and not the parents?
It is frustrating to me because it seems that the kids are getting extra help from their parents (ie. parents contacting ALO/emailing/knowing all deadlines for applications), and I'm honestly doing it on my own.
Anyone else have anything to say about this? am I wrong?
just wanted to put my two cents in.
Sometimes it's parents asking because their kids ARE doing it on their own and the parents are curious or concerned.
There are some parts of the process that get put on the parents whether they like it or not. For example, my son had medical remedials and needed records from 5 doctors in three states. He was under 18 and the doctors wouldn't deal with him. All of the record requests had to come from me.
We also had a congressman whose liaison preferred to talk to parents. She said it was just easier than leaving messages for kids who couldn't call back until after school. Would I have told her "no, you have to talk to my son"? Nope.
I also think it's sometimes important for parents to stay informed so they can be a reality check for our kids. Every applicant to a SA is sure that he/she will a) get a nomination b) get an appointment and c) breeze through CBT. They are strong and confident young men and women who have rarely, if ever, failed at achieving what they set out to do. Often it's the parents who are publicly cheerleading that "full steam ahead" attitude while quietly making sure there's a plan B in place.
My point is only that there are so many different scenarios and personal situations you may just need to roll with it.