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I find this interesting because many, at least on the AF side will say that the majority of ALO's want to meet the parents too. They know that part of this process is the support system within the family.
As I stated previously, I don't know the peer circles, or the posts that you are getting this idea from, but I really have not seen parents posting can you please read my DS/DD's essay, or can you chance my kid?
I am not disagreeing, I think kids should do this on their own, but I am just not seeing these helo parents at a level you are seeing and talking about.
~ To be brutally honest, I think it is more common from the traditional college application perspective, but not the SA/ROTC perspective.
OBTW, we did not assist our DS at all because he had an amazing ALO, thus we were hands off except for going with him to his DoDMERB physical, and driving the 4 hrs each way for his MOC interviews.
And... you were also far more familiar with the life and process compared to the rest of us. An awful lot of parental involvement is, at least in major part, to get some understanding. Not getting on you BTW Pima. Just pointing out to others one of the contributing factors as to why you could take your approach.
Just had the thought that, surprisingly, I was actually fairly familiar with what the process was for application to an Academy when DS was looking into all this. I had absolutely no idea what the ROTC process was, so I had a lot of learning to do.