We arrived in the morning last year and sat in on one of her classes. We got to spend time with her during her free period of over lunch. In the afternoon we got to spend some more time with her, saw the barracks and got to meet some of her friends. She did have at least one obligation and a class in the afternoon. We had dinner with her. Band members had to report early, of course, for Beat Retreat. But we had a little time with her afterward. All in all, well worth being there all day. Plus, various parents associations have tables. It's a nice chance to meet other parents and discover that your daughter is not the only one who is not communicating.
Oh, and they get some privileges, like not having to square corners, when with their parents, so they will be glad to see you.
The only ones with any obligation for Beat Retreat besides the Band are those who carry their state flags at one point in the ceremony. I'm not sure how they are chosen.
On Saturday, of course, you have the parade. If you were impressed by them at the Indoc parade, you'll be amazed to see them then. Watching our DD swear the oath was what finally brought tears to my eyes. (As an Army wife, I watched my husband swear an almost identical oath too many times and know what it really means.) Be prepared afterward with the camera to snap a picture of the eagle being pinned on. Band Co. had a separate, special ceremony outside the Band room to pin their plebes.
They will all have to stay together during the football game. We had the added excitement of a visit from the remnants of Hurricane Hannah last year. Most of us parents sought shelter after the first quarter of the game. But the game continued and plebes stood out in the downpour. (Of course, we might not have abandoned the game if it had been against Coast Guard.) It was pretty late before she was able to leave on Saturday, maybe after 6? I know we were late for our dinner reservations but managed to catch the Verizon store before they closed. Of course, Hannah did cause some delays in the game.
Our daughter wanted to eat good food (we did a nice seafood restaurant), shop and sleep. I would suggest that you not base your plans for their lib on what has happened the last few years. The new Superintendent may handle it differently.
Enjoy your visit with your plebe. You will be amazed at the changes in them in such a short time!