Proud Mom
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following your instincts
Blackhawkmom,
I'm so happy your son has his meds and that things were straightened out with the help of the chaplain that you contacted. You don't need me to tell you this, but following your mom instincts was the right thing to do. These instincts are tied to this DS. I have two DD. If placed in the same situation as you, one would have wanted me to make that call, and the other would not want me to make that call. The DD who wouldn't want me to make the call would have been grateful that I did because in the end two positive things happened: the meds were received and the assumptions and misunderstandings uncovered. Isn't it GREAT to know that he didn't continue the thought process of "t"ing out based on the things that were uncovered!!!
My husband asked me why he didn't get a chit to go get his meds. I said I don't know! I told him that I thought he didn't go get his meds because it would mean separation from his squad. What did I know. He said, "No, it wouldn't!" Okay, so now we know why having a parent who was a graduate of one of the military schools is a plus, as far as beating the attrition rate.
My question is, where should DS have acquired this information- getting a chit to pick up meds. I'm sure there are many useful pieces of information that could help a plebe, midshipman and parent. Is there a manual or website. ???
My daughter who is a 2015 candidate keeps saying, "Mom, what are you doing on that forum. I MIGHT NOT even get in!?" (high pitched and slightly angry voice) I respond by saying, I'm learning in-case you do get in. (her response- upset sounds of aggravation) - Yup, she's the one who wouldn't want me to make that call, but if her USNA graduate dad couldn't give her the answers she needed; I would have called the chaplain. I think the chaplain is there for DS and DD to decide whether the situation warrants his attention or not. I don't think he is there to rescue the DS or DD. Thank God for chaplains!
High-five and hugs,
Proud Mom
Blackhawkmom,
I'm so happy your son has his meds and that things were straightened out with the help of the chaplain that you contacted. You don't need me to tell you this, but following your mom instincts was the right thing to do. These instincts are tied to this DS. I have two DD. If placed in the same situation as you, one would have wanted me to make that call, and the other would not want me to make that call. The DD who wouldn't want me to make the call would have been grateful that I did because in the end two positive things happened: the meds were received and the assumptions and misunderstandings uncovered. Isn't it GREAT to know that he didn't continue the thought process of "t"ing out based on the things that were uncovered!!!
My husband asked me why he didn't get a chit to go get his meds. I said I don't know! I told him that I thought he didn't go get his meds because it would mean separation from his squad. What did I know. He said, "No, it wouldn't!" Okay, so now we know why having a parent who was a graduate of one of the military schools is a plus, as far as beating the attrition rate.
My question is, where should DS have acquired this information- getting a chit to pick up meds. I'm sure there are many useful pieces of information that could help a plebe, midshipman and parent. Is there a manual or website. ???
My daughter who is a 2015 candidate keeps saying, "Mom, what are you doing on that forum. I MIGHT NOT even get in!?" (high pitched and slightly angry voice) I respond by saying, I'm learning in-case you do get in. (her response- upset sounds of aggravation) - Yup, she's the one who wouldn't want me to make that call, but if her USNA graduate dad couldn't give her the answers she needed; I would have called the chaplain. I think the chaplain is there for DS and DD to decide whether the situation warrants his attention or not. I don't think he is there to rescue the DS or DD. Thank God for chaplains!
High-five and hugs,
Proud Mom