blackhawkmom
5-Year Member
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- Apr 9, 2010
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Oh and to J-A-mom--no offense taken -son has never quit anything in his life. He knows the leadership and the commitment involved in this wonderful opportunity. He also knows what a huge decision it is to get there and or to stay and he knows the commitment involved . Thank God he has a brain big enough to ask questions now than to wait four years and go "woops i changed my mind this is not the path for me." Many kids go to many colleges leave -flunk out -or realize it was the wrong decision for them. It can happen to any kid anywhere. Do we want him to stay yes-but they shouldn't stay for anyone but themselves if there is anything wrong it would be to stay for all the wrong reasons that in the end would do no one justice. Part of this growing up leaving home thing is to make their own decisions we can not live their lives for them it would be sad to think he would commit 9 years of his life doing what someone else wanted him to do and worrying about someone else being disappointed in him instead of what he wanted for himself. All we can do is encourage and support them-we were told on i-day they are not ours anymore and they are adults and are to make their own decisions. Since we can not talk to them I just hope the counselors are adult enough to handle these situations especially if they dont know the plebes personality and maturity level.