I am probably going to get jumped up and down upon for saying this, but not only do the 20something% of women at USAFA need to be mindful of their behavior, their associations, etc. in an environment where they are a significant minority, but the 80something% of men need to also be mindful of their own behavior, their associations, etc. when situations can degenerate. Men AND women need to watch their behavior when indulging in alcohol, and men need to be held responsible for inappropriate behavior just as women need to not put themselves in situations of risk. As JMC said before, it is often hard to get to the "truth" in these situations and just because a male cadet is "exonerated" doesn't mean there is a "false accuser" that gets off unscathed. Yes, I have a daughter, and my husband was in the first class of female cadets, Class of 80. We lecture her constantly about making sure she is not misunderstood and that she does not put herself in a risky situation. I expect the same from the men around her. I don't expect them to protect her, but I do expect that they understand boundaries and respect the women around them.
I don't see why anyone would jump all over you for this post at all. It seems VERY fair and truthful to all sides. Bottom line seems to be that ladies need to protect and respect themselves and that young men need to be respectful and mindful of their words and deeds.
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