I wonder if "the wait" is different for "regular kids?"
DS is our first born so we are new to this entire thing (with the exception of our own dated experiences.) I think that because of the work involved, the competition, and the small window of chance, perhaps the wait more difficult. Maybe not? We all want the best for our kids but I have begun standing down. What will be, will be! I used to pray that DS would receive an appointment (this has become a wonderful 10 minutes of meditation every day) but now, I pray only for the very best possible outcome. He is at the firing range with his Dad, brother, sister, and favorite aunt, enjoying life, and all that 17 has to offer. I am pleased by that. I feel blessed that while his road was rigorous and challenging, it was smooth. So many excellent candidates have encountered potholes that have derailed them. Everything that can be done is done. Hang tight! Good luck!