The double edged sword of STP is that while you're becoming familiar with the Institute, the Institute is becoming familiar with you.
Think of STP as one long first impression. The upperclassmen will be watching you from a formal closeness, if that makes sense. They won't befriend you, but they will be judging your performance.
If you do well, it's possible that you'll end up with a good Dyke. Many of the rising First Classmen who will be around are still looking for rats--if not for themselves, then for their BRs.
On the flip side, you might find out on Matriculation Day that one your STP Counselors has now become your Cadre CPL or SGT.
So, the moral of the story:
- Work hard;
- Be respectful to everyone;
- HAVE FUN!, but don't mess around;
- Focus on academics and getting in shape;
- Think before you speak, act, or breathe; and
- Take time to build relationships with professors and BRs alike.
On being respectful, you don't need to call everyone "Ma'am/Sir," but you should use these phrases with your professors and other officers. STP is designed to be a relaxed introduction; no one should be flaming you (yet
).
Never assume familiarity with anyone but your Brother Rats. (Sidenote: Make this a habit until after Breakout of your Third Class year. I still referred to the members of the Class of 2007 as "Mr./Miss" when I was a Third and they were the Firsts, and it really helped me out.) Don't joke around with your STP Counselors unless they make it clear that they don't mind--and even then, don't assume that just because one is chill with you, all of them will be chill.
Believe me... contrary to the popular cliche, there really
are stupid questions.
The guys who work in the Guard Room will keep a list of the stupidest questions they get asked. This doesn't mean you should be afraid, but you might consider asking around to see if any of your future BRs know the answer to a question before asking an upperclassman. As a general rule, don't ask specific questions about what it's like during Hell Week, the distinguished art of straining, or what they had to do for Breakout.
All of this to say... the way you dress yourself is a direct reflection of your attitude. You will be judged by what you wear, so don't be stupid. If they say that t-shirts are fine and you wear dress pants and a tie to class, you're a tool. Seriously... if they say that t-shirts are fine, then t-shirts are fine. But don't think that no one will notice what your t-shirt is advertising.
You're part of VMI now, and VMI is part of you, even though you won't really fit in until your Second Class year. If your clothing makes you look like a fool, you make the Institute look foolish.
In general, maintain an appropriate attitude. You won't earn the right to be an arrogant jerk until after Breakout.
Hope this helps!
Jackie M. Briski '09
First Class PVT (Ret.)