Whoa I'm thinking about ND AFROTC too (if you can't tell by the username). My sister went to ND on a type-1 a few years ago, and she absolutely loved it. The people at the detachment there are incredibly nice--I visited the pasquerilla center when I toured ND last fall, and the capt. I spoke with even remembered our family, even though it had been 8 yrs.
All ROTC members are very well respected on campus; I can personally attest to this. Everyone there genuinely realizes the importance of "God, Country, Notre Dame"
I don't know if this is exactly the type of information you're looking for, but I hope it helps.
Did you just get admitted to ND, or were you accepted EA?