I concur
As noted above, you are an officer first. That said, the first decision is what branch do you want to be in? Rotor or Fixed Wing. One of the best ROTC options is Westminster College in Utah. They have an affiliation with University of Utah for Army, Navy (& Marines), and Air Force ROTC. They have Professional Pilot major and several of the kids have done very well. The Navy (& Marine Corps) will help pay for Private Pilot lessons. The overall program is expensive though. While ALL tuition, room & board are covered for students with Full ROTC Scholarships, the Aviation training is not (figure around $50,000 over four years). Most Marine and Coast Guard aviators are helicopter pilots.
And the other option is the Army's Warrant Officer Flight Program (WOFT) which you realistically need 2 years of college minimum first. Again, while you may be a "Pilot Specialist" you are still a commissioned officer (once you make W-2) first.