When our DD is at USNA is it possible to visit on a unscheduled parent weekend?
Ricer... a visit is good. Too many visits defeat the purpose. Everyone feels like you. We love our children. We love to see our children. Sometimes we have to love them enough to leave them alone.
The academies are well known for the difficult and sacrificial nature of the commitment. The wording of your post makes it appear that you are worried you won't be able to have regular visits.
Unless you have a tremendously needy daughter, she probably won't want regular visits. A big part of academy life is bonding with his classmates, and figuring things out on her own.
Parental protective feelings toward daughters applying to an Academy is understandable, but the academies have a way of taking care of these kids.
If you're always there, doing laundry, giving snacks, treating to meals, etc. Your DD will not only remain dependent upon you, her friends will notice that she can't quite hack it on her own.
Oddly, I find myself in agreement with LITS, once a year is good, although it's nice to go to Herndon, as well as Plebe Parent Weekend.
And golly, I may be reading way too much into the original post. If so, I apologise. These are just my personal opinions. Everyone of course must do as they see fit for their own kid.