Thank you! She is on a flight right now for Open Water swim in Ft Myers FL, a competition that she has qualified for three years in a row! The timing is perfect as this hit so hard. Also today another college has accepted her. 3rd one! So while you know the field is highly competitive (SA) you still go through the thoughts 'I'm just not good enough' maybe I should have done this or that?
Then you read of the others who also didn't make it and you know you must just forge on!
Weigh the pros and cons and move on. I'm not sure what she'll end up doing, I just told her "take this weekend to spend on you". "When you come home you can make your decisions, what ever you choose you will be successful and daddy and I will support you 100%."
This board, though I just joined has been a wealth of information and if she should decide to go forward I will encourage her to join. Thank you all