When our son was a plebe, just my husband and I went with him when he reported on the morning of I day. The incoming plebes are usually stressed and focused on what is ahead, and we knew that while he would tolerate his parents being there, he would not appreciate a crowd. We took care to have all our discussions before the morning of I day, so all we had to do was accompany him to the Academy. After a few pictures, we said our good byes and off he went. My husband and I spent the day visiting the mid store and attending the parents picnic, neither of which I would categorize as essential. Later that afternoon, before the Oath of Office, there was a great presentation for families in Alumni Hall. The Superintendent, Commandant, Dean, and Athletic Director all spoke and it was enjoyable and informational. Our plebes brothers joined us for this and I would highly recommend this for parents and other family members who would be interested in attending. There was plenty of time after the presentation to stroll over to Bancroft Hall and Stribling Walk to get ready for the Oath of Office. At that time, other family members and our Plebes friends joined us and our Plebe was happy to have them all to send him on his way for Plebe summer. However you decide to handle I day regarding friends and family, I would suggest discussing it with your plebe in advance so there are no surprises on that day. And if he/she has certain wishes regarding family and friends, relay this information so everyone understands the situation. Good luck!