I know .. this will be a tough transition.
Wait for emails...
He may send a few words...
They will be balancing TONS of stuff.
Think of it this way, the more he spends time emailing family (and friends), the more he puts himself at a potential disadvantage to completing the impossible load of things being thrown at him.
Sooo, those few words in an email... are GOLD.
Tell me what you need me to send, and if you are ok. Apart from that, no news is good (ish) news.
At one point, having no news at all, I weekly sent the last stuff he'd requested.... until I got an email saying "Dad. Stop.Stop. I have enough cleaning supplies. I've shared with everyone.. I don't need any more"
I was bound and determined to hear from him... somehow . hahhhaa.
Just checking that his email worked.