Misunderstood,
I definitely don't agree with accepting and then changing mind, but there are some cases that people just don't know what they are getting into.
I lived there for 4 years and saw it way to often.
Keep in mind many people have until May 1st.
That was my DS deadline
That's a sad way to see things, someone doesn't get in because of themselves not someone else. People are allowed to weigh their options. While I definitely think he should not wait until rday, I don't think he should rush on anyone's account. There are people that think they are 200% and don't...
I think your smart by thinking it through, this is a life decision. This is a serious commitment.
I personally don't think your "screwing anyone". Life is about decisions!
I do agree that you are making a lot of work for yourself and the staff but again if there is doubt take your time...
I don't think many people DoNT hot hero ugh the process. I think 95% of people try every means possible to get a nomination sometimes it just doesn't work out