Parent’s weekend question - how many can come?
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All can come! No limits! (But we lost grandpa at the football game, and that was kind of traumatic.).
Do make arrangements asap for where to stay. There were a lot of stories about air bnb cancellations at the last minute. Some folks reserve two just in case. And most people say their doolies didn’t want to go out to eat, etc - just wanted to stay in and relax, sleep. My son was fine going out in uniform, so it varies. Still, im glad we weren’t in a hotel (we stayed at a family’s home).
Do make arrangements asap for where to stay. There were a lot of stories about air bnb cancellations at the last minute. Some folks reserve two just in case. And most people say their doolies didn’t want to go out to eat, etc - just wanted to stay in and relax, sleep. My son was fine going out in uniform, so it varies. Still, im glad we weren’t in a hotel (we stayed at a family’s home).
All are welcome, however, there is lots of walking and it is all up. My inlaws skipped the game, it was too hot, and too much walking. VRBOs are great because they can relax, nap, raid the fridge, etc. They will need to be in uniform anytime they are in public, including in the hotels. They mostly just want to decompose, I mean decompress, nap and hang out. They are not the same people you dropped off in June.
VRBOs and car rentals fiill up quickly and the price goes up. Book early.
VRBOs and car rentals fiill up quickly and the price goes up. Book early.
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Hot showers. Cold air conditioning. Comfy bed and pillow. Fresh fluffy towels. Cold favorite beverages in the fridge. Moms cooking. Social medial. Gaming system. Ear bud. Music. Tv.
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The Yard is a public place. Anyone with proper ID can enter, through public entrance during visiting hours. Bring whomever you want. It’s not a ticketed event. It does get crowded, and all that entails (lack of seating, parking challenges, crowds).
Ditto the HOT, and adding HUMID
. I’m accustomed to heat and humidity, but it was next level being surrounded by water.If gramma and grandpa are unable to walk, that would be challenging. But also shouldn’t stop them from coming, if they are able. Even if going in the yard was too much for them, they would still be able to be with you when you are dismissed.
If you bring a group, HIGHLY recommend a house. We have always enjoyed getting away a bit. Our fav little spot is Cape St Clair. Close, and a private beach to chill at.
Parents weekend is more about you getting off the Yard and family time. It’s a whole different vibe for parents than Iday.
Parent days (Thurs-Sun) was one of the best of memories for me. We went early as a family and spent a week there. Sight saw, visited state parks and beaches, etc as it was our first time out East for our family.
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I will add this. The Cadet Wing Parade was extremely hot last year. The sun at elevation is no Joke. We had Grandparents with us and had to move them under the blenchers. We will not be attending the Cadet Parade this year. Once you have seen one Parade, you have seen them all. lol
Our cadet, being their first year, wanted to do very little. All they did was sleep and eat.
Our cadet, being their first year, wanted to do very little. All they did was sleep and eat.
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Oopsies, wrong academy. Sorry about that! I’m past the ‘delete’ window. Doesn’t matter what SA, though. Parents week is pretty special.The Yard is a public place. Anyone with proper ID can enter, through public entrance during visiting hours. Bring whomever you want. It’s not a ticketed event. It does get crowded, and all that entails (lack of seating, parking challenges, crowds).
Ditto the HOT, and adding HUMID
If gramma and grandpa are unable to walk, that would be challenging. But also shouldn’t stop them from coming, if they are able. Even if going in the yard was too much for them, they would still be able to be with you when you are dismissed.
If you bring a group, HIGHLY recommend a house. We have always enjoyed getting away a bit. Our fav little spot is Cape St Clair. Close, and a private beach to chill at.
Parents weekend is more about you getting off the Yard and family time. It’s a whole different vibe for parents than Iday.
Parent days (Thurs-Sun) was one of the best of memories for me. We went early as a family and spent a week there. Sight saw, visited state parks and beaches, etc as it was our first time out East for our family.
Word of wisdom on grandparents: consider their age/physical fitness! We were concerned that my grandparents would not be fit enough to make the trip in 3 years for my graduation and brought them out for parents weekend. My grandmother (in her mid 80s) did not do so well with the altitude/heat combination. 7000+ ft MSL is a big change from sea level. Just something to consider
I know the parade can be hot but my boys (cadet's little bros) love it! We get there early to watch the gliders, falcons, Wings of Blue, etc. They never tire of watching them.
Hats, unopened bottles of water (stadium rules apply at the parade field too) and sunscreen are lifesavers!
As a cadet, Parent's Weekend meant the world to me all 4 years. As a parent, I love it even more.
Hats, unopened bottles of water (stadium rules apply at the parade field too) and sunscreen are lifesavers!
As a cadet, Parent's Weekend meant the world to me all 4 years. As a parent, I love it even more.
Parent's Weekend is always Labor Day weekend. I'm not sure if it is the same for Preppies. Hopefully a preppie pare t can answer.
Yes it’s the same weekend for Preppies and they have a football game too.
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Wrong AcademyThe Yard is a public place. Anyone with proper ID can enter, through public entrance during visiting hours. Bring whomever you want. It’s not a ticketed event. It does get crowded, and all that entails (lack of seating, parking challenges, crowds).
Ditto the HOT, and adding HUMID
If gramma and grandpa are unable to walk, that would be challenging. But also shouldn’t stop them from coming, if they are able. Even if going in the yard was too much for them, they would still be able to be with you when you are dismissed.
If you bring a group, HIGHLY recommend a house. We have always enjoyed getting away a bit. Our fav little spot is Cape St Clair. Close, and a private beach to chill at.
Parents weekend is more about you getting off the Yard and family time. It’s a whole different vibe for parents than Iday.
Parent days (Thurs-Sun) was one of the best of memories for me. We went early as a family and spent a week there. Sight saw, visited state parks and beaches, etc as it was our first time out East for our family.
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Ya I addressed that earlier but thanks.
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Your cadets can have as many guests as they can handle. Remember that your cadets are responsible for all their guests.
Do not let little ones run amok LOL
Do not let little ones run amok LOL
Cadets are not responsible for their guests unless in a restricted area.
Know your cadet before loading up the bus. Many cadets will not want to be a tour guide and will just want to relax.
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Correct. Sorry, I should have been more clear.
Regardless, if guests are unruly, even in unrestricted areas, it doesn't reflect well on the cadet and/or can cause embarrassment. Not that I believe anyone would be unruly.