What I wish I knew when I was your age...

People will also judge you by how you treat other people. Be kind, courteous and compassionate to everyone, regardless of how they act. You never know what difficulties they face or what hard battles they are fighting.
DITTO! The best thing I learned about how to behave, and how to treat other people goes something like this; Trustworthy, Loyal, Helpful, Friendly, Courteous, Kind, Obedient, Cheerful, Thrifty, Brave, Clean and Reverent.
 
DITTO! The best thing I learned about how to behave, and how to treat other people goes something like this; Trustworthy, Loyal, Helpful, Friendly, Courteous, Kind, Obedient, Cheerful, Thrifty, Brave, Clean and Reverent.

hmmmmmm sure sounds and looks like the Scout Law:thumb:
 
1) Listen to your gut. Deep down, you know what's right and not. You know what's right FOR YOU and what isn't. Don't let anyone talk you into or out of anything that your gut tells you that you should do otherwise. ALWAYS GO WITH YOUR GUT!!

This will apply to many, many facets in your life. When you need a compass, there it is. Even when the other option is easier, more fun, etc. Your first instinct is 99% of the time the right one. Can't tell you how many times I've wished I would have just listened to my inner compass.

2) Always think about the "next step". When I was in college, I thought about being in college. How can I get through the sememster? What do I have to take next semester? Will I EVER be done? (I was done in 4 years, it just seemed like a lifetime... I had no idea how easy I had it!!) What I SHOULD have been thinking was - what can I do in college today that will help me for the "real world" tomorrow? Finding a mentor is a great idea... someone who has a job that you might someday want to have. It can help you navigate college in a better, more productive way, and can allow you to take advantage of opportunities that you might otherwise pass up.

3) Don't sweat the petty stuff, and don't pet the sweaty stuff!! :eek: Good advice, huh?!? :wink:
 
1) Listen to your gut. Deep down, you know what's right and not. You know what's right FOR YOU and what isn't. Don't let anyone talk you into or out of anything that your gut tells you that you should do otherwise. ALWAYS GO WITH YOUR GUT!!

This will apply to many, many facets in your life. When you need a compass, there it is. Even when the other option is easier, more fun, etc. Your first instinct is 99% of the time the right one. Can't tell you how many times I've wished I would have just listened to my inner compass.

2) Always think about the "next step". When I was in college, I thought about being in college. How can I get through the sememster? What do I have to take next semester? Will I EVER be done? (I was done in 4 years, it just seemed like a lifetime... I had no idea how easy I had it!!) What I SHOULD have been thinking was - what can I do in college today that will help me for the "real world" tomorrow? Finding a mentor is a great idea... someone who has a job that you might someday want to have. It can help you navigate college in a better, more productive way, and can allow you to take advantage of opportunities that you might otherwise pass up.

3) Don't sweat the petty stuff, and don't pet the sweaty stuff!! :eek: Good advice, huh?!? :wink:

Great advice! Especially the mentor part and planning ahead. Next year Im hoping someone will take me under their wing:rolleyes:
 
Chiming in here as a military spouse:

Hard lesson learned #1: You are responsible for your own happiness.
The world does not owe you happiness. You will find yourself in places you don't like and/or doing jobs you don't like. Take responsibility for yourself. Every place has something good. It's up to you to find it. Find something to do that makes you happy, or at least content. If you focus your efforts on that instead of on complaining, you will be much happier in the long run. Oh, and did I mention that no one likes to spend time with someone who is always complaining.

#2 A variation on OhioSoccerMom's 3rd point. Learn to figure out what is really important. Is it really worth the energy and time to get worked up over this thing? Is it really going to matter in 5 hours, 5 days or 5 years? This is a lesson learned from a stubborn toddler. Sometimes you just have to pick your fights and let go of what you can't control. :thumb:
 
Congratulations!
Today is your day.
You're off to Great Places!
You're off and away!

You have brains in your head.
You have feet in your shoes
You can steer yourself
any direction you choose.
You're on your own. And you know what you know.
And YOU are the guy who'll decide where to go.

You'll look up and down streets. Look 'em over with care.
About some you will say, "I don't choose to go there."
With your head full of brains and your shoes full of feet,
you're too smart to go down any not-so-good street.

And you may not find any
you'll want to go down.
In that case, of course,
you'll head straight out of town.

It's opener there
in the wide open air.

Out there things can happen
and frequently do
to people as brainy
and footsy as you.

And when things start to happen,
don't worry. Don't stew.
Just go right along.
You'll start happening too.

OH!
THE PLACES YOU'LL GO!

You'll be on your way up!
You'll be seeing great sights!
You'll join the high fliers
who soar to high heights.

You won't lag behind, because you'll have the speed.
You'll pass the whole gang and you'll soon take the lead.
Wherever you fly, you'll be the best of the best.
Wherever you go, you will top all the rest.

Except when you don't
Because, sometimes, you won't.

I'm sorry to say so
but, sadly, it's true
and Hang-ups
can happen to you.

You can get all hung up
in a prickle-ly perch.
And your gang will fly on.
You'll be left in a Lurch.

You'll come down from the Lurch
with an unpleasant bump.
And the chances are, then,
that you'll be in a Slump.

And when you're in a Slump,
you're not in for much fun.
Un-slumping yourself
is not easily done.

You will come to a place where the streets are not marked.
Some windows are lighted. But mostly they're darked.
A place you could sprain both your elbow and chin!
Do you dare to stay out? Do you dare to go in?
How much can you lose? How much can you win?

And IF you go in, should you turn left or right...
or right-and-three-quarters? Or, maybe, not quite?
Or go around back and sneak in from behind?
Simple it's not, I'm afraid you will find,
for a mind-maker-upper to make up his mind.

You can get so confused
that you'll start in to race
down long wiggled roads at a break-necking pace
and grind on for miles across weirdish wild space,
headed, I fear, toward a most useless place.
The Waiting Place...

...for people just waiting.
Waiting for a train to go
or a bus to come, or a plane to go
or the mail to come, or the rain to go
or the phone to ring, or the snow to snow
or waiting around for a Yes or a No
or waiting for their hair to grow.
Everyone is just waiting.

Waiting for the fish to bite
or waiting for wind to fly a kite
or waiting around for Friday night
or waiting, perhaps, for their Uncle Jake
or a pot to boil, or a Better Break
or a string of pearls, or a pair of pants
or a wig with curls, or Another Chance.
Everyone is just waiting.

NO!
That's not for you!

Somehow you'll escape
all that waiting and staying.
You'll find the bright places
where Boom Bands are playing.

With banner flip-flapping,
once more you'll ride high!
Ready for anything under the sky.
Ready because you're that kind of a guy!

Oh, the places you'll go! There is fun to be done!
There are points to be scored. there are games to be won.
And the magical things you can do with that ball
will make you the winning-est winner of all.
Fame! You'll be famous as famous can be,
with the whole wide world watching you win on TV.

Except when they don't.
Because, sometimes, they won't.

I'm afraid that some times
you'll play lonely games too.
Games you can't win
'cause you'll play against you.

All Alone!
Whether you like it or not,
Alone will be something
you'll be quite a lot.

And when you're alone, there's a very good chance
you'll meet things that scare you right out of your pants.
There are some, down the road between hither and yon,
that can scare you so much you won't want to go on.

But on you will go
though the weather be foul
On you will go
though your enemies prowl
On you will go
though the Hakken-Kraks howl
Onward up many
a frightening creek,
though your arms may get sore
and your sneakers may leak.

On and on you will hike
and I know you'll hike far
and face up to your problems
whatever they are.

You'll get mixed up, of course,
as you already know.
You'll get mixed up
with many strange birds as you go.
So be sure when you step.
Step with care and great tact
and remember that Life's
a Great Balancing Act.
Just never forget to be dexterous and deft.
And never mix up your right foot with your left.

And will you succeed?
Yes! You will, indeed!
(98 and 3/4 percent guaranteed.)

KID, YOU'LL MOVE MOUNTAINS!

So...
be your name Buxbaum or Bixby or Bray
or Mordecai Ali Van Allen O'Shea,
you're off to Great Places!
Today is your day!
Your mountain is waiting.
So...get on your way!


- Dr.Seuss, Oh the Places You'll Go
 
Thanks for the memories, LITS,

As I began to read, there was something oddly familiar about the soothing doggerel. Eventually, the signs of Dr. Seuss emerged, and I recognized this poem had been featured at numerous bedtime readings at the Delahanty household. Unfortunately, the person it invariably put to sleep was the reader. What was really annoying to FG Infant Delahanty was when I would doze off but my mouth would continue to spout some idiocy clearly unrelated to the poem.

Fortified with two cups of black coffee, a cool spring breeze and a bright blue sky, nearly 20 years after the first of many failed attempts, this morning I finally reached the end of the poem. I'm sure there is a lesson here somewhere.
 
What I wish I would have known.......

Don't spend all your money. Save a little bit from every paycheck.
 
LITS... that's not just great advice I wish I had when I was younger... that's great advice for NOW! :smile:

Sometimes, Dr. Suess makes it so clear... I once was going places... then I went the wrong way and ended up in a Slump. Then I went to... The Waiting Place. I need to get out of that place!! It's just about time. Must get DS off to the places he'll go first!! Then I need to be brave, and get myself off to a Master's program! And I've had this goal... but Dr. Suess reminded where I once was, where I am now, and where I want to be.

There you go, Howacupcake... print off LITS' Dr. Suess and keep it someplace you'll refer back to! It'll keep you focused as the years go by!
 
It's something my fiancee read to me. Then had me look again when I was unemployed. And yep, I agree totally applies to adult life.
 
My favorite tag-line is "Never Regret Something That Once Made You Smile." I live by that.
 
My father always gives great advice. One of is favorite pieces of advice is: A smart person learns from their mistakes, a wise person learns from the mistakes of others. The adults in your life have been there done that, it'll save you alot of heartache, money, time, and energy if you use your resources.
 
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