Folks, I’m not digging the OP. But NORMALLY, a persons first post on this, or any type of forum, starts off with a brief introduction and a somewhat general question or two. (Which most of us tell them to use the search because there’s 1,374,458 posts about it already).
When a first time poster posts a bomb shell type question, and isn’t posting back constantly because it is so serious, but goes 4 days without a reply, I get very suspicious of its authenticity.
So, to the OP. If your post is legit, then come back and comment. Give details. Don’t be generic and expect to be taken as serious instead of as a troll. Sorry if I am skeptical. But I am.