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We told our children that we would help them with college (and managed to save a small amount of money on one salary, split up among the offspring).
The choice of college is important for more than just academics (romance comes to mind).
We have strong religious and political opinions and refused to spend our good money on ideologies with which we had strong objections. If our children had chosen one of the schools where there was a big problem, we'd have had a big discussion.
But, we generally buck trends: when our kids got married, we told them: "If you are old enough to marry, you are old enough to pay for it, and we'll be pleased to sit in the pew and enjoy your day."
The choice of college is important for more than just academics (romance comes to mind).
We have strong religious and political opinions and refused to spend our good money on ideologies with which we had strong objections. If our children had chosen one of the schools where there was a big problem, we'd have had a big discussion.
But, we generally buck trends: when our kids got married, we told them: "If you are old enough to marry, you are old enough to pay for it, and we'll be pleased to sit in the pew and enjoy your day."