I’m a USAFA grad and my son will soon graduate from VMI
I never wanted to go to a civilian school. USAFA was my first and only choice. I was lucky it worked out
My son was offered good merit money to attend Purdue, Case Western and Texas A&M but chose VMI. He wanted a “SA” like experience where he would be immersed in the cadet lifestyle full-time. He was looking for that Brother Rat experience.
I agree with kinnem that regardless where you are ... you get out of the program commensurate with what you put into it. Where I disagree is the level of preparation a SMC (or SA) provides vs a civilian school. VMI is a good example. They prioritize the military and physical fitness in the daily schedule. They set the school around it. They emphasize the ROTC training. They put 2 5-day field training exercises in the school year (1 Fall/1Spring)to work on land navigation, marksmanship, tactics, etc. and fit the academic calendar around the field exercises. In addition to active duty members instructing ROTC, they have many former or retired military as their academic instructors. They have senior military leaders visit the school and interact with the cadets. Recent visitors include SECDEF Mattis in the Fall and current Secretary of the Army yesterday
Another key stat for SAs and SMCs is the attrition rate. Today the SAs have about 20% attrition. I know VMI’s attrition runs about 30% over 4yrs (500 enter as freshmen and about 350 graduate after 4 yrs.) Not sure about the other SMCs.
Lastly, while I know regular ROTC can produce an outstanding officer (I’ve served with several) as a general rule, the SMC / SA approach produces a more numerous good Officer product. I believe I have experienced that in my career. If this is not so, then I don’t know why we have SAs and SMCs.
With all that being said, your DS should go to where he would be most comfortable and where he would have the best chance to excel.
Best wishes to you and him and thanks to him for his willingness to serve.