TeddyPlus4
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I'm an Executive Officer for a Command that processes Reservists to all parts of the world. I often have to make the decision on whether they go "down range" or not.
There are many benefits to being a reservist: GI Bill, Medical, Pay, etc. Unfortunately, I have experienced a rash of people who came in to the military for the benefits and when called upon to deploy, they list a litany of reasons why they can't. Such is the reason for this post.
The truth about the military is that we are getting closer and closer to war with several countries that will remain un-named. If your DS/DD is joining the military today, there is a high probability that they are choosing a career field where they will go to war within the next 20 years. This is a very tough conversation to have with the person that you gave birth to.
Please tell your DS/DD: This is not about a "free college plan", the friendships that you will form, the beautiful ski slopes of Colorado, or the list of activities at the AFA. At the end of the day, you are being trained to lead others in a time of war. You may die doing it and you may give orders that cause someone else to give up their life. Close your eyes and reflect on that for a second. It should scare you and it should be a humbling burden that people are sending their son/daughter to serve under your leadership. If it doesn't, you are entering the wrong career field.
This is not about college, it's about deploying to support the objectives of your nation (even when you don't agree with the leader or the objective). If they can't accept that, please do every military member and the nation a favor and decline admission.
There are many benefits to being a reservist: GI Bill, Medical, Pay, etc. Unfortunately, I have experienced a rash of people who came in to the military for the benefits and when called upon to deploy, they list a litany of reasons why they can't. Such is the reason for this post.
The truth about the military is that we are getting closer and closer to war with several countries that will remain un-named. If your DS/DD is joining the military today, there is a high probability that they are choosing a career field where they will go to war within the next 20 years. This is a very tough conversation to have with the person that you gave birth to.
Please tell your DS/DD: This is not about a "free college plan", the friendships that you will form, the beautiful ski slopes of Colorado, or the list of activities at the AFA. At the end of the day, you are being trained to lead others in a time of war. You may die doing it and you may give orders that cause someone else to give up their life. Close your eyes and reflect on that for a second. It should scare you and it should be a humbling burden that people are sending their son/daughter to serve under your leadership. If it doesn't, you are entering the wrong career field.
This is not about college, it's about deploying to support the objectives of your nation (even when you don't agree with the leader or the objective). If they can't accept that, please do every military member and the nation a favor and decline admission.