Harry Potter cut it off with Ginny as he had a mission to accomplish. After he accomplished it, they got back together.
If you are meant to be...you can put things on pause and reevaluate later.
If it doesn't work out, it isn't meant to be.
But even if you went to "regular" college, what usually happens is:
You swear YOU TWO ARE DIFFERENT! You can make it work!
At first you Facetime every day!
But then you realize that is annoying to your roommate/you have no privacy so you try to find times to Facetime when your roommate isn't there.
But you have classes and he has classes and you joined that club and he is on the intramural soccer team so maybe we can talk on Tuesdays.
He has that co-ed group of friends he goes out on weekends with and you have your group from the dorm.
Oh, here comes Fall break...but his is at a different weekend than yours so you can't get together...
There is that one person in the group that you/he kind of likes...but you have girl/boyfriend!
Why isn't he talking to you as often? or Why are you looking at excuses not to talk to him?
So you look forward to thanksgiving...but by then you are kind of really into that other guy/he is really into that other girl and you kind of get together over break and ooohhhhh noooo you have a fight about not talking as much anymore and you break up.
It's called the Turkey Drop.
Plan your life around you...not any HS boy/girlfriend.
I also watched my friend's son who entered the army and was stationed elsewhere in the country and he didn't want to lose his girlfriend so they got married. Everyone told them: You are too young! You don't know what you are getting into! You are moving away from your family! But they got married. And had a kid.
But now they are separated.
If you are meant to be...you can put things on pause and reevaluate later.
If it doesn't work out, it isn't meant to be.
But even if you went to "regular" college, what usually happens is:
You swear YOU TWO ARE DIFFERENT! You can make it work!
At first you Facetime every day!
But then you realize that is annoying to your roommate/you have no privacy so you try to find times to Facetime when your roommate isn't there.
But you have classes and he has classes and you joined that club and he is on the intramural soccer team so maybe we can talk on Tuesdays.
He has that co-ed group of friends he goes out on weekends with and you have your group from the dorm.
Oh, here comes Fall break...but his is at a different weekend than yours so you can't get together...
There is that one person in the group that you/he kind of likes...but you have girl/boyfriend!
Why isn't he talking to you as often? or Why are you looking at excuses not to talk to him?
So you look forward to thanksgiving...but by then you are kind of really into that other guy/he is really into that other girl and you kind of get together over break and ooohhhhh noooo you have a fight about not talking as much anymore and you break up.
It's called the Turkey Drop.
Plan your life around you...not any HS boy/girlfriend.
I also watched my friend's son who entered the army and was stationed elsewhere in the country and he didn't want to lose his girlfriend so they got married. Everyone told them: You are too young! You don't know what you are getting into! You are moving away from your family! But they got married. And had a kid.
But now they are separated.
