just an update for anyone in a similar situation needing advice:
I contacted my first choice school to which I was waitlisted and explained my situation directly to one of their admissions councilors and the unit contacts I had. They told me their very slim chances of getting off the waitlist so...
I have received a four year NROTC scholarship at my first choice school, however I have been waitlisted at that school. Is there anything I can do to reach out to the school that might help me get my acceptance? Or should I begin the process of transferring my scholarship to another NROTC Unit...