campus visit

Does anyone happen to know if the appointees will be offered an "appointee visit" before they accept or do they have to accept the offer first? I am guessing this would be at your own expense, so the sooner we can get visit info the better.

We would like for our DS to visit campus to be SURE he really wants this (I'm sure he does, but better safe than sorry!) Sadly, NONE of the times for guided tours work for us: my husband wants to attend with him (bonding) and both of their schedules are incredibly finite. At this point, the...