3 USNA Football Players Face Sexual Assault Probe

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2) If she accuses rape, then it MUST be true ---only 5% of rape cases end in a conviction (over 60% of murder cases end in convictions) So does this support or not support your claim!

"But what we can learn from all this, is that each of us has a level of responsibility for our own actions. Most times, we have the ability to control events that could lead to an incident that could affect us" If you make the US to mean ourselves as well as others - thus not helping or helping another cadet/friend/stranger is also in our control, I agree 100%

I think my claim is supported no matter WHAT the numbers say. Don't "Parse Out" my post. Immediately prior to the portion you pulled out, I was speaking of "Stereotypes". No one here on the forums or usually when discussing these topics with others, knows the case 1st hand. None of us are looking at the evidence provided to the lawyers. Hell, none of us have even seen the police report. Yet, whenever we start talking about rape, we ASSUME that the accusation is true. I'm simply saying that I believe in the founding father's premise that we are innocent until proven guilty. And we shouldn't stereotype.
 
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I think my claim is supported no matter WHAT the numbers say. Don't "Parse Out" my post. Immediately prior to the portion you pulled out, I was speaking of "Stereotypes". No one here on the forums or usually when discussing these topics with others, knows the case 1st hand. None of us are looking at the evidence provided to the lawyers. Hell, none of us have even seen the police report. Yet, whenever we start talking about rape, we ASSUME that the accusation is true. I'm simply saying that I believe in the founding father's premise that we are innocent until proven guilty. And we shouldn't stereotype.

"So does this support or not support your claim!" is a ligitimate question, Does this stat mean every time some claims there is a rape it goes to trial even without evidence thus supporting your "claim", or does this mean even with enough evidence to go to trial the accuser is not believed, thus contrdicting your claim, either is possible or some combination of the two is possible.



I think my claim is supported no matter WHAT the numbers say. Don't "Parse Out" my post. Immediately prior to the portion you pulled out, I was speaking of "Stereotypes". Love it! Must be from the airforce! Watch out below!


ARMY!!!
 
"So does this support or not support your claim!" is a ligitimate question, Does this stat mean every time some claims there is a rape it goes to trial even without evidence thus supporting your "claim", or does this mean even with enough evidence to go to trial the accuser is not believed, thus contrdicting your claim, either is possible or some combination of the two is possible.



I think my claim is supported no matter WHAT the numbers say. Don't "Parse Out" my post. Immediately prior to the portion you pulled out, I was speaking of "Stereotypes". Love it! Must be from the airforce! Watch out below!


ARMY!!!

I already answered your question. But let me try again. I'll type slower. Maybe that will help.

I'll first quote the ENTIRE statement I said and not just the part you quoted.
We are always talking about how we shouldn't stereotype. Yet, when the subject of rape comes up, there are always 2 stereotypes. 1) It must have been a MAN who raped the woman; and 2) If she accuses rape, then it MUST be true.

WE are not the courts. WE are not the investigators. WE do not know all the evidence pro or con. I am not talking about police, military investigations, courts, etc... I am talking about WE. As in those posting on this forum and those who sit around the table and talk about these things. WE STEREOTYPE the situation. WE tend to believe that if a claim of rape is made, then it must be true, the woman is the victim, and the accused it guilty. WE don't automatically say: "We should wait until the court rules"; or something similar. This thread alone has had a number of posts about "Not BLAMING the victim". To "ASSUME" that she IS a victim, that everything one has read about her accusations is completely true.

The fact that so many rape charges are acquitted, means either that there isn't enough proof that the accused did in fact rape the accuser; or that there is a stereotype on the court's position that the accuser must be partially to blame. But again, I'm not discussing the courts, police, military justice, etc... I'm talking about WE the posters. We tend to automatically assume that because an individual makes an accusation of rape, it must in fact be true. I have no real knowledge of the case that this thread originally mentioned. The accuser can possibly be 100% a victim. She in fact most certainly could have been raped. But that's not for me, you, or anyone else here to say. We don't know. We can most definitely have opinions, but I'm simply saying that our opinions shouldn't be based on an "ASSUMPTION" that the accusation is true and that the accused is guilty. That's why I used the word "IF" a lot in my posts. "IF" alcohol was involved. "IF" the accused is guilty. "IF" the accusations are true. Point is, I don't stereotype an accused as automatically being guilty or the accuser as automatically being a victim. I also don't assume the opposite either.

My contribution to this thread was simply to point out that individuals, ALL individuals, need to be more responsible for their own actions. This includes individuals who are put into a position that potentially victimizes them. Chances are slim that they were completely put into that position against their will. In this particular case, it's unlikely that she was forced to go to the party. Or forced to drink beyond intoxication. But as I said previously, this doesn't justify or condone any actions by the accused, "If" such actions were not consensual. Simply pointing out the "Fact" that each of us has control over our own actions. As such, we need to be more responsible so as to not put ourselves into a position where we no longer have control.
 
What it does is cloud the question of consent. If the accuser was thoroughly intoxicated and consented and the accused was also intoxicated (making his judgment similarly clouded) and he considered her consent was freely given, then, yes, I do think that "lessens the actions of the accused." If the accused had no consent, they should be punished severely. At this point however I do not think anyone can verify that. What if all involved were under the influence to the degree that no one could remember?


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Mids are told very frequently that it doesn't matter if she's yelling YES! YES!! YES!!! If she's drunk she has not consented. They all know this. They've heard it dozens of times. An intoxicated person cannot consent, period.
 
And a "football house"? One of many known such houses? Really? If true, it's time to give a firm jerk on the reigns of the FB program.

Indeed.

D1 sports (and all the negatives they bring) need to be eliminated completely.

There is nothing provided to military academy midshipmen and cadets (to make them better military officers) by D1 sports that cannot be provided at the D3 level.
 
Mids are told very frequently that it doesn't matter if she's yelling YES! YES!! YES!!! If she's drunk she has not consented. They all know this. They've heard it dozens of times. An intoxicated person cannot consent, period.

And what if the male is equally as drunk? He is saying yes and she is saying yes. But I guess that doesn't count. I'm sure legally the rules are biased. Or maybe that is why few charges lead to a conviction. Hard to say.
 
And what if the male is equally as drunk? He is saying yes and she is saying yes. But I guess that doesn't count. I'm sure legally the rules are biased. Or maybe that is why few charges lead to a conviction. Hard to say.
Lets see if I have this straight. If a female service member is intoxicated and chooses to drive....she is responsible for that bad decision. If a female service member is intoxicated and chooses to have sex....she is NOT responsible for that bad decision. However....her male partner is responsible whether he is intoxicated or not.
 
Lets see if I have this straight. If a female service member is intoxicated and chooses to drive....she is responsible for that bad decision. If a female service member is intoxicated and chooses to have sex....she is NOT responsible for that bad decision. However....her male partner is responsible whether he is intoxicated or not.

Yup, I think that's about it.
 
Let's all take a minute and remember that, in the midst of all the hand-wringing about who bears the blame and so forth, there is a young woman at the center of this who is likely living a nightmare right now, and three guys who aren't having their best week.
 
Let's all take a minute and remember that, in the midst of all the hand-wringing about who bears the blame and so forth, there is a young woman at the center of this who is likely living a nightmare right now, and three guys who aren't having their best week.
I can't speak for others, but I have not forgotten who is having a "bad" week. I thought we were discussing why any of them were in this position to begin with and what can/could be done to prevent similar situations. Hopefully we don't get so caught up in the plight of the victim{s) that we are unable to discuss (hand-wringing) who bears the blame and so forth.
 
Mids are told very frequently that it doesn't matter if she's yelling YES! YES!! YES!!! If she's drunk she has not consented. They all know this. They've heard it dozens of times. An intoxicated person cannot consent, period.

That is my long distant memory of the annual UCMJ class from the perspective of an enlisted guy. This mandatory training, it seems to me, make cases like this very different in the military than in the civilian world.
No one who was in this training (assuming it has not changed much since my days of wooden ships) was confused about what was or was not rape (yes in coarse terms) and what was consent and what was not consent. [Girls (people) who were drunk, under 18, or had mental impairments simply could not consent. Even in exchange for money! (Also delivered with real life and coarse scenarios.)] It is still in my head! I'm working from memory here. I think the training obviates any claims to 'I didn't know/understand.'
Now, today the Joint Chiefs were getting a 'hair cut' in a congressional committee on just this issue. They, to a man, defended the current practice of leaving the decisions for case like this with the commander (it is not clear to me what level that is at in the various services).
What say everyone on the proposal to take sexual assault decisions out of the chain-of-command? It makes some sense to me.
 
Why the Naval Academy will continue to have problems with its football team

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Gee, what a surprise -- Naval Academy football players doing something bad. This is not the Navy per se at all. It is the result of a perfect storm of rotten policies, all directed at making the Academy football team able to compete in Division I and win games generally.

  • Turning the Naval Academy Preparatory School into an institution designed to enable academically weak athletes to scrape by at the Academy, a terrible turn from the original intent of the institution (all three academies have them), which was to give a leg up for deserving enlisted personnel who obtain an Academy appointment. This really stinks.

  • Whole battalions of retired admirals and captains floating around Annapolis and the whole DC metro area who exert enormous pressure on the Academy to excel in football in the all too typical rah rah culture of alumni from schools where football is a metastatic part of the culture (think Penn State).

  • Letting football players have all kinds of special privileges at the Academy, which creates in the minds of many a sense that they are untouchable. This includes time off from various onerous duties that other midshipmen must perform and pressure on professors to let the slide by with low grades.
 

He said that Naptown is a "party place and beach/sailing resort."

I'm a VMI grad and AF Vet, but I live in Annapolis. I grew up here, too. I guess that makes me a "townie," although that's a pretty cool thing to be in this area :biggrin:.

Anyway, I take exception to Goldich on at least one point: There is no beach worth a sh@t for at least two hours. Sure, there is Sandy Point on the Bay. I worked there in high school. I wouldn't swim there unless I had a desire for a bacterial infection of some sort.
 
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Mids are told very frequently that it doesn't matter if she's yelling YES! YES!! YES!!! If she's drunk she has not consented. They all know this. They've heard it dozens of times. An intoxicated person cannot consent, period.

And that's not to say that a majority of the instances she says "yes yes yes", she also fine in the morning. Service members do, from time to time, engage in sexual relations while someone in intoxicated. Most of the time it's fine. But that doesn't mean it can't come back to hurt you.

I play hockey. I could not wear a cup for 3 straight games and be fine. "See, I told you it's fine to play hockey without a cup." And then in that 4th game take a shot to a place where "the sun don't shine."

You and your lady/guy friend may have a great time... but don't forget, because consent cannot be given (even if everyone is drunk), so you could always be burned.

And always play hockey with a cup.
 
Let's all take a minute and remember that, in the midst of all the hand-wringing about who bears the blame and so forth, there is a young woman at the center of this who is likely living a nightmare right now, and three guys who aren't having their best week.

That is an assumption, but a definite possibility.
 
Let's all take a minute and remember that, in the midst of all the hand-wringing about who bears the blame and so forth, there is a young woman at the center of this who is likely living a nightmare right now, and three guys who aren't having their best week.

I know someone might think that I am trying to blame the victim, I am not.

The fact is that parties involved made certain decisions. Those decisions lead to certain consequences.
 
You're not blaming anyone. There's 2 separate conversations going on in this thread. That is what some people need to keep in mind.

1. There's an accusation of rape that has been presented. Until all evidence has been shown, and a trial (If warranted) is held, no one here knows if the accuser or the accused is in the right. Just because an accusation is made, doesn't mean it's the truth. Nor does the accused claiming innocence mean they are innocent. NO ONE HERE knows the truth.
2. No matter what the "LAW SAYS", which is a separate issue, each individual by being responsible for their own actions, does have control most times over the circumstances they have been put in. Therefor, most times, an individual can minimize the potential of being put into a compromising position or that of being a potential victim.

These are the 2 separate discussions going on.
Discussing #1 is futile because no one here has any evidence. No one here is investigating the case. No one here knows the truth. It's simply stereotypes and assumptions.
Discussing #2 may actually help prevent similar situations in the future to someone else. Some may realize that they do have control over their own lives and most times over their actions. If they take responsibility for their actions. It doesn't place blame or innocence on the first discussion. Again, we don't know the facts of that case. Everything said in Discussion #2 is strictly generic and applies to similar scenarios in general.
 
There's 2 separate conversations going on in this thread.

Um, 4-8 pages arguing what is rape :rolleyes:

....while the fundamental principles of discipline, conduct, the honor code and officership has been thrown out. Who cares that civilian mom and dads on here, the media, and DC (IRS employees) do not understand principles. Retired military, current officers and cadets absolutely shall understand.

While our naval academy leadership continues to ‘investigate’ the USMA leader made his cadets accountable toward academy principles.

USMA investigation was completed May 2013
cadets on the club-level team violated the academy's conduct codes through an email chain that included content that was immature, unprofessional, disrespectful and unacceptable, Lt. Col. Webster Wright said.
"It was locker room trash," said Wright, who would not detail the contents of the emails.
the seniors were busted in rank to cadet private, restricted to post, had privileges taken away and were either marching or going through respect training right up until graduation.


Our incident from the OP happened in April 2012.

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/06/01/us...wanted=1&_r=2&

http://www.wbal.com/article/100201/2...Investigation-


Ms. Tisdale told her friend that rumors were flying around campus that several football players had had sex with her at the party. Social media also quickly began to play a role in spreading word around campus. Ms. Tisdale said that a football player showed her a private Facebook page on which some midshipmen had posted suggestive comments that appeared to be about the episode.

In the weeks after the party, the woman said, one player approached her, saying he wanted her to remain quiet. She said she heard the same thing from other people who were in contact with the football players.

a midshipman and a friend of the woman, said she had to deal with subtle intimidation. “The football team sits together in the dining hall, and we would have to walk past them to go to dinner, and sometimes they would stare at her,” he said.

an April 2012 party, investigation has sputtered off and on for more than a year,

The woman said that she lost her driving privileges and privileges for weekends off campus because of her under-age drinking,

The disciplinary action came after a meeting with the academy’s commandant then, Capt. Robert E. Clark II —

Five midshipmen, including a football player and the female midshipman at the center of the case, were disciplined for underage drinking at the football house party, according to academy officials. Five others, including some football players, were disciplined for providing alcohol to minors, according to the officials. Twelve midshipmen received some form of disciplinary action as a result of the party, the officials said.


the players were allowed to play for the team last fall



current and former female midshipmen said they believe many more episodes go unreported

Definitely. Its not a military problem (go to any other organization and this happens). The solution is not getting DC involved to take away leadership within the Navy (civilians work at the academy too). The solution is for our leaders to lead at all times, including removing ineffective leaders and demoting and kicking-out cadets that fail in the principles. Their kid getting kicked-off the team or kicked-out will shock mom and dad, in time the families WILL move on and get over it.


"As soon as the leadership was made aware of it, they worked very quickly the team was immediately suspended," Lt Col Wright


Wright said the team will be reinstated only after returning cadets show enough progress in their behavior. He said there was no guarantee it will be this year.
 
+1 jbsail


Here is something I pulled off the USNA website __I wonder howmany cadets got in trouble for not reporting possible honor voilation?

1. List and briefly describe the four options a midshipman has upon witnessing a possible honor offense.

a. Approach and discuss, then if no violation has occurred, take no further action.
b. Approach and discuss, formally counsel in writing and submit counseling sheet to Honor Chair.
c. Approach and discuss, then report the offense to the Brigade Honor Chair in the form of a formal accusation.
d. Take immediate action by reporting the offense to the Brigade Honor Chair in the form of an accusation.

2. What are the two precepts of the Honor Concept?

a. Midshipmen are presumed to be honorable.
b. A Midshipmen’s statements and actions must always represent the complete truth.

3. State what the “non-toleration clause” is, also specify as to where and how it is applied.

The “non-toleration clause” is a part of the U.S. Military Academy and U.S. Air Force Academy honor code, wherein failure to report an honor violation is an honor violation in itself.

4. In the case of a not guilty plea, can the honor of the accused be used against them?

Yes, if the accused is given the order to answer a question, they are required to answer that question. To do otherwise would be a UCMJ offence.
 
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