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Just one problem with that last statement. We both can't be right, can we.:eek:

Nope. Pascal tells us to hedge our bets. If God (the omnipotent Christian God) really is there, though, wouldn't he know you were believing in him just to err on the side of caution?

I'll take my chances.
 
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I pray for the health and safety of my wife, my family and her family, as well as our friends who are sick or going through a tough time.

often I pray for those close to me.

I pray for forgiveness, because I do plenty that requires it. I'm not perfect in anyway.

And I pray for strength... especially then I was jobless and down.

I can't remember the last time I prayed for something other than a safe smooth flight or a sports game that doesn't end in anyone hurt or dead. Maybe I have, I just can't remember it.

Sometimes things go your way, sometimes they don't. Praying won't make things turn out the exact way you want.

Great thing about God is He's there for everyone, whether you believe or you don't. He doesn't comdemn for doubting, Christians wrestle with things too. The hope is at some point, you figure it out. Maybe you need people around you to help. Maybe you do it on your own. Who knows.... I'm certainly no expert.
 
Sprog ... do you suspect your son loves you? I'd hope so.

Do you love it when he tells you so? I know so.:thumb:

Maybe even more obvious ...

Do you love your wife? Does she know it? Does she reward you when you tell her that passionately?:eek:

The notion of "hedging" our bets is interesting if sorely flawed. I had a dying friend ... this is true ... who had a personal audience with the pope, ate lunch with the Dahli Llama, and had his Presbyterian pastor pray for him. Said like Pascal, perhaps?, hedging his bet.

btw, can you expand on your contention of Pascal's apparent view of his Christianity?
 
Christcorp ... you may want to return to post #1, sentence #1. I think you've "misread" maybe. And thus maybe miswrote about your view of mine.:wink:

Ballplayers don't pray to win. They pray for their best performance absent injury that the game's outcome remain with them in lieu of some Preconceived godly "fix." Let the best man win. Not the best god.

My own read on your Christian POV is that may well be yours, but is not your Lord's look at the process. His instruction was to pray without ceasing. For big things and small.

The notion of a 911 god is a convenient human spin, imo.

Iron sharpens iron.:thumb:

No, I didn't misread. And I didn't mis-write. Your position on prayer is admirable. Simply stating that in my opinion, you've over simplified the result of prayer.

1st: Yes, many ball players, fans, etc... do pray to win. Most people aren't as selfless as you make them out to be.
2nd: Many people pray for what THEY want, instead of what they hope God wants. Many go to the extent of even having a "Backup Plan" in case God doesn't answer their prayer.
3rd: The best part of faith/religion is that it's a personal relationship. So while you might believe that my "Chirstian POV" is incorrect and yours is correct, I am totally confident that the relationship can and IS different for individuals. So, at your level, your belief may very well be correct for you. Just like I recognize both of my children as being individuals with different perspectives, needs, desires, abilities, etc... So I also believe God recognizes in us.

As for your belief in prayer; have at it. You can pray for all things big and small and without ceasing. You can take that literally if you want. Not sure how you can go 16 hours a day in continuous prayer, but if you can pray without ceasing, then more power to you. As for me, I'll continue to pray too. But not for what I want. I'll keep praying for God to keep me on track for what he wants. And if I don't know what he wants, I'll just wing it until I feel I do know.

But I honestly believe that God doesn't help a person receive an appointment because they prayed for one. Again; any time a prayer is involved that involves a choice between 2 or more people, I don't believe God shows favoritism. Not in that regard. To do so, means he would allow another person to not win/succeed/etc... You are correct that in the world of competition; whether it's sports or an academy appointment; the individuals involved SHOULD be praying for god's will; safety; allowing their best ability; etc... But the truth is, which I emphasized, is that not everyone who prays does that. They pray to win. They pray for receiving the appointment. They pray for what they want. But again; we all have our own personal relationship with our God. I am quite comfortable and confident in my relationship. I am glad that you are too.
 
Sprog ... do you suspect your son loves you? I'd hope so.

Do you love it when he tells you so? I know so.:thumb:

Maybe even more obvious ...

Do you love your wife? Does she know it? Does she reward you when you tell her that passionately?:eek:

The notion of "hedging" our bets is interesting if sorely flawed. I had a dying friend ... this is true ... who had a personal audience with the pope, ate lunch with the Dahli Llama, and had his Presbyterian pastor pray for him. Said like Pascal, perhaps?, hedging his bet.

btw, can you expand on your contention of Pascal's apparent view of his Christianity?

So; are you placing "HUMAN" attributes to God? That he has human feelings? That he appreciates. I understand that it's simpler for people to refer to God in human terms. It makes God more comprehensible. e.g. Father, Him, Love, etc... But in order to assign "Human Attributes" to God, you'd have to also include "Human Faults". And being God is perfect, God would be without fault. In other words; just because you assign God human attributes to more easily describe or understand him, don't confuse your definition of love, appreciation, feelings, etc... with God's. God's "Feelings" don't get hurt if you don't tell him you love him.
 
You bet. As a Christian, what does your guide book say about you and me? Whose image are you made like? The problem comes when we look at our inner workings.

Now, gotta be very careful not to anthropomorphize God. We're like him. Or at least we were once. That's where the need to be "reborn" comes into play. Our hearts are selfish, not godly. He works to transform and save us from the outcome of that selfish. Death and worse. He's not like us anymore than a Ford car maker is like a Focus.

btw, your preferred spin on what I did not say fails to recognize that we need to work at knowing what God would have us pray. And it's not "kill that other guy!" or "let me score 20 and our team more than them." lol And those who might offer those then wonder why they went unassisted. lol
 
The law most certainly does not require you to respect non-Christian beliefs.
Burn our flag or a bible and it's "Free Speech". Burn a Koran and they want to execute you. Call a christian a bible thumper or jesus freak and it's free speech. Make an anti-semitic or muslim comment and there are those that will call it a "Hate Crime". If you don't realize that there is reverse discrimination going on and the whole Political Correctness movement is the main cause for most of our social conflicts; you're wearing blinders.

What do you mean by stating that "non-[C]hristians are allowed to be more disrespectful of [C]hristians"? Who, do you suggest, should disallow such behavior?
December 25th is "Christmas". It's a religious holiday. (Forget that it's been commercialized). It's a federal holiday. It celebrates the birth of christ by christians. Yet, most places because of their PC BS, won't let you say "Merry Christmas". It must be "Happy Holidays" or some similarly neutered salutation. I have jewish friends and when we're in Hanuka, that's what I recognize. When it's christmas, they are good enough to recognize christmas. I expect that from others too. But no, it has to be neutral. Politically correct.

You bet. As a Christian, what does your guide book say about you and me? Whose image are you made like? The problem comes when we look at our inner workings.

Now, gotta be very careful not to anthropomorphize God. We're like him. Or at least we were once. That's where the need to be "reborn" comes into play. Our hearts are selfish, not godly. He works to transform and save us from the outcome of that selfish. Death and worse. He's not like us anymore than a Ford car maker is like a Focus.

btw, your preferred spin on what I did not say fails to recognize that we need to work at knowing what God would have us pray. And it's not "kill that other guy!" or "let me score 20 and our team more than them." lol And those who might offer those then wonder why they went unassisted. lol
Whistle; I think you clarified a lot more to me than you probably intended. I'm bowing out of this thread. Enjoy.
 
I did not ask God to give my son an appointment. I don't ask God to give me money. My DS earned his appointment and I earn money because I work.

I don't want to talk about religion. Some people believe in God and some don't, and that is fine. Some people believe in fortune teller and do what the fortune teller tells him/her to do, and that is fine. Some people blame on them, and that is not fine with me.

Like all the parents who read SF, I studied and analyzed the application process of the service academies. All the people on tihs forum are hard workers and want to do 110%.

It is just after my DS did all he could do and I did all I could do, I still had to do something to keep my self calm during this process. Even if I knew I had no control and there was nothing I could do, I still wanted to do something. So I talked to God.
 
I prayed when DD was DQ for medical and it was eventually overturned. Did it help? Who knows? We will all find out sooner or later. "Gunga Galunga"
 
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...or let's stop trying to propagate the myth that the poor humble Christian is so persecuted in this country. That's Fox News garbage. It's false and, to those who are not of the vocal Protestant majority, such a notion is frankly insulting. The ACLU, like them or not, has made one simple thing clear: they won't let the gov't sponsor religion.

You enjoy prayer and believe that it has somehow affected your life positively. Good. Let's move on.
 
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Burn our flag or a bible and it's "Free Speech". Burn a Koran and they want to execute you. Call a christian a bible thumper or jesus freak and it's free speech. Make an anti-semitic or muslim comment and there are those that will call it a "Hate Crime". If you don't realize that there is reverse discrimination going on and the whole Political Correctness movement is the main cause for most of our social conflicts; you're wearing blinders.

See, here's the problem...you're falling into the same ignorant trap that so many others do. I don't know if that's because you're ignorant yourself, or because of what I see as a Fox News-propagated "WASP victim culture." The great downtrodden Christian myth.

Yes, you can burn our flag. You can burn a Bible. You can even burn a Koran. It's still free speech. Your clever use of "they" (as in "burn a Koran and THEY want to execute you") was not lost on us. Tell us, who is the great THEY of which you speak? Do you mean islamic fundamentalists? Funny, I didn't realize they were a big part of the American free speech debate on a daily basis. If you burned one in Afghanistan or Iran, you might have a problem on your hands. But trying to bring violent religious fundamentalist views that were born in nations who do not subscribe to our rights of free speech and religion is a lame tactic. Go burn a Koran in your town square. A lot of people will think you're a jerk, but you'll be well within your rights. And you'll be fine.

As to your point about "Bible thumper"....you know why people don't get worked up about it? Because in a country so thoroughly bathed in the Christian majority's views, we have literally developed no anti-Christian insults that are anywhere on par with the anti-Semitic or anti-Muslim terms out there. It's the same with race....really, what's the worst insult you can call a white person? It's good to be king, huh?

Boo-hoo to your "reverse discrimination" garbage. Discrimination, by definition, has no implicit direction. It is simply the act of prejudicial or distinguishing treatment toward an individual based on his/her membership (real or perceived) in a certain group. The fact that you see discrimination toward Christians (which exists more in myth than in any reality) as "reverse" implies that discrimination has been previously oriented in one direction--from Christians, toward others--as part of some natural order of things in our country. Sadly, you're right.
What you see as "reverse discrimination" is nothing more than the fact that we're approaching, slowly but surely, a point in this country where the lion's share of rights don't go to white male protestants. Perhaps you grew up in some lily-white town where the public high school teams had a protestant minister say a prayer before a game, or where the county courthouse put a nice Nativity scene out front every year. Both have been upheld as violations of the establishment clause in several instances by a variety of courts up to and including the Supreme Court. The problem is that the majority powerholders in this country for generations and generations were white protestants. So when the minister cleared his throat to pray for the group, or the janitor started to set up the Nativity scene, no one stood up and said "hey, I don't think that's right." Why? Because it was hard enough to be a Jew or a Muslim or any other flavor of non-majority religion by itself, let alone to be the one to stand up to the fact that the Christian majority had co-opted so much of what should be free of religion.

December 25th is "Christmas". It's a religious holiday. (Forget that it's been commercialized). It's a federal holiday. It celebrates the birth of christ by christians. Yet, most places because of their PC BS, won't let you say "Merry Christmas". It must be "Happy Holidays" or some similarly neutered salutation. I have jewish friends and when we're in Hanuka, that's what I recognize. When it's christmas, they are good enough to recognize christmas. I expect that from others too. But no, it has to be neutral. Politically correct.

Actually, it's a celebration of any of several retold accounts of the birth of the religious figure Jesus of Nazareth, which occurred in the springtime (likely May) and was subsequently moved to the winter to coincide with and supplant the Anglo-Saxon pagan Yule holiday. But I digress.

Really, though, where are these "most places"? Got some names? Where exactly are you PROHIBITED from saying "Merry Christmas?" Where MUST you say happy holidays? Are these places private? If so, they can prevent you from saying any number of things. So where are these places where your rights have been so grievously violated? It's great that you wish the chosen people a Happy Hanukkah (or Chanukkah, if you prefer...free judaism lesson, my gift to you). That's your choice. Your personal behavior has nothing to do with the activity of the government. Nothing.

The fact that you're so aggrieved that things "must be neutral" is prima facie evidence of my point. This country is so used to Christians being allowed to flavor everything, unquestioned, from the song at the seventh inning stretch of the Yankees game to the oath of office, that the idea of leaving the Christian [g]od out of things seems downright unpalatable to some...
 
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Yes, you can burn our flag. You can burn a Bible. You can even burn a Koran. It's still free speech. Your clever use of "they" (as in "burn a Koran and THEY want to execute you") was not lost on us.

Weird because I don't remember the President of the United States (Obama) coming out to tell someone not to burn a Bible but I distinctly remember that being done for a Koran (in fact I remember some Army officers whining about it....) And do you remember WHY those Army officers whined (on Fox News) about it? Because they were considered about someone in a certainly Islamic country "executing" the invaders.... :rolleyes:
 
Weird because I don't remember the President of the United States (Obama) coming out to tell someone not to burn a Bible but I distinctly remember that being done for a Koran (in fact I remember some Army officers whining about it....) And do you remember WHY those Army officers whined (on Fox News) about it? Because they were considered about someone in a certainly Islamic country "executing" the invaders.... :rolleyes:

Thank you for re-iterating my point. When you're in Afghanistan, a discussion about free speech in America is a moot point. When you're discussing the First Amendment in America, what the Afghan people might think of your speech is a moot point.

When you're trying to train a volatile partner force in a lawless, uneducated, heavily islamic country, sometimes the boss reminds you not to throw their sacred texts on a pile of trash and light it on fire.

Commanders-in-Chief say the darndest things...
 
As Hurricane said on page 1, different strokes for different folks. I used to be fairly religious and pray alot. After 2 years in the desert, 25 funerals before the age of 30 (and only one of those was over the age of 40), and serving as a CACO and telling folks their loved one was dead... I stopped. I dropped it all. I don't want anything to do with organized religion or God. I am not the only one amongst my friends who went down this path. Some of my friends became more religious from similiar experiences. Whatever works for folks.
 
And WP... there are plenty of Atheist in foxholes. Trust me, I knew plenty and became one. Do I pray today... no. I would probably call it meditation more than anything. Sometimes when I need the world to slow for a few moments and to collect myself I will do something close to prayer, but not to God. It is more of a pep talk to myself and/or the world.
 
Hoops, we really do feel your pain. I hope you don't mind, but I'm praying for you today.

Yours is possibly THE major issue for people struggling with and as you've done for now, shedding it. Be clear about one thing ... faith in God and organized religion are TOTALLY disparate issues. One has little or nothing to do with the other beyond serving to bring the faithful into relationship with each other. But I digress.

Lots of great minds have written about the struggle you've succumbed to, i.e. why do bad things happen to good people (a false argument), and why would a loving God allow 25 funerals for NavyHoops.

The real problem is that your self-described circumstances reveals one of two options, neither of which is of much good. First, you are angry and dismissive of a God you may be claiming does not merit your worship. But all that really says is you are upset because you've somehow perceived that God's job is to prevent death and destruction that you and I have created. Sorry, but he's allowed us those paths and we follow them. Way too often. The messes are ours and God has given us that freedom to choose even evil and/or destructiveness.

P.S. Since there seems to be a certain fascination with my observation (not at all original) of "no atheists in foxholes" let me offer 2 thoughts. 1. It is a "saying" made by many before me. Is it literal? 2. I believe it is. And despite Hoops and others alleging , "Oh yea! Well I know some." in fact no one has ever been able to testify to that since the essence is when that brave sailor or soldier have taken their final breath, there is not a single soul (now that's an interesting term of no value to an atheist) who has come back to tell anyone ... "Hey, I stood firm that there ain't no Hell nor Heaven and no God!" For if they did, the ensuing question would have to be, "Then what are you doing back here?" Again, people arguing things they cannot know. And will only know when the time for knowing is past.

The 2nd alternative is that you've concluded God does not exist. The problem with that is simply this, by doing so, you've then determined that you, me, your dead friends were merely bio-chemical accidents whose purposes were to eat, drink, procreate, be merry, make as many Mary's as possible, and die. They've simply fulfilled their natural destiny, no big deal.

But of course it IS a big deal to you and all who have loved these dear ones. And that's the fly in your ointment. Ain't no love in science. Only in the creations of a Creator.

So you've a right to be sad, mad, and more. And that is where your workout starts. If you deny that then ... your job is as noted, be merry and make Mary's and don't worry about the rest. Somehow, I suspect that doesn't really fit you. Or any of us. No God. No hope. Not even in our minister of "hope and change."
 
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Someone's doubt or ability to turn away doesn't mean God isn't there.

I'm guessing more than one of us on here (including myself) was a CACO at some point. For some I'm guessing being a part of something like that, and making sure it's done right, is a huge honor. And while death is painful for those of us left to mourn our losses, some of us believe it is far better for those who have gone on.

Of course, that's hard to reconcile when you're burying an 18 year old service member.
 
C.S. Lewis, one of the great scholars (and a one-time atheist) has written much on this topic. Philip Yancey and others too. But just a little of Lewis ...
What would you have Him do?
• God has the power to intervene in situations where Person A is about to hit Person B over the
head with a wooden bat. He could miraculously turn the bat to rubber or candy floss.
• If He stopped all bad things from happening, He would be robbing us from making any real moral
choices, because our bad choices would be nullified.
• All real moral decisions have consequences, and the human race has frequently chosen to do evil.

Your friends died because of the consequences of man's decisions, not God's.

One of his other profound thoughts about the pain, hurt, and anger you have. Hard as it may be to grasp, absent those in the world, there'd be no joy, healing, and love. As simple as this sounds, it took me a good while to grasp this in trying to understand my own purpose in the "eyes" of my Creator vs. my own.

And it's important to remember that for God, this earthly thing is merely a training/prep school type of thing. The real deal is when we graduate to our eternal calling. He said rightly, we're just "vapors" ... "dust" here. And the older I get, the more I get it. lol And so whether we have 10, 20, 30 or 100 years, it's really insignificant in terms of our forever.
 
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