Nope; you can't see your cadet-to-be until the ceremony. And then, unofficially it will be for an hour or two. "I say unofficially, because it depends on what type of schedule your cadet has with things to do". So basically, it means there's a 99% chance you get to spend a couple hours with them; but don't get too upset if all you can spend is a 15 minute hug and saying how proud you are of them. But you will probably get a couple hours. You can't go any place. Most cadets and their family will stay right around the parade field or the parking lot. Almost everyone, including us, brought a mega picnic basket and had a nice picnic with our son. Also remember, the majority of the cadets; including new friends of your son/daughter; won't have family coming for "A" day. They are saving money and vacation time for parent's weekend. So, bring enough food for your son, you, and a couple of his new friends. They will appreciate this more than just about anything. Also; I had my cell phone and my wife's cell phone; and we let my son's friends who's parents weren't there, to call home to their parents. They really loved that too. Except for Doolie Day Out, they haven't spoken to anyone back home. Also remember that they are in their dress blues. So don't bring "Messy" foods. Ask your son what he wants. For our picnic, we made sandwiches, fried chicken, potato salad, etc... Best of luck to you. mike....