Great wisdom from other posters and the OP here in some honest reflection - thank you all. It’s unfortunate if you didn’t have specialized legal counsel walk you through ideal answers you could have organized and presented through the PRB. You should consider getting counsel and aligning on exact words and a strategy *if you are going to pursue an appeal. No guarantee but it might give you the best chance.
Real talk - I think you’re focusing on the arrest status change, as if clearing that will clear you to move forward. No arrest is needed to be disenrolled. If you presented to the board the same “wasn’t me” I’m 100% innocent and THEY’RE WRONG/ LYING! energy, while they have other people saying otherwise that they believe, then that lack of personal accountability/ lack of ownership or commitment to improve “could” have contributed to the board not desiring to have you continue toward serving as an officer in the AF. To me, it's not a good look. I don’t know for sure.
In the corp world, I will tolerate mistakes but when I see someone who is “bulletproof” – they mess up but take zero ownership – it’s an express route to career limitations or demise. Just this week we behind the scenes killed an employee’s application to apply for a promotion in another department because their only path from our team at this point is to leave or sit in neutral because – when they mess up they finger point and take no ownership and we're all just "done" with the nonsense.
One of the hardest things to do as a young person (and for some people who are 60 too sadly) is look at disconnects from an “I should have” lens and learn from that vs focusing on others and what they did or did not do. If truly you were a wee little innocent lamb here, who was helping an elderly person across the street on your way to volunteering at a veteran’s shelter, when all this was literally made up, then get counsel and appeal and I would seek damages from those who lied. But honestly I get the sense you contributed here, and that you know that already, and are struggling to process this. I think it will help you grow to put some energy into “I should have” introspective reflection. I don’t know – I’m just a Dad of another trainee along with other folks here, trying to help you sort this out. Good luck to you.