Pima
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This is exactly what I was willing to do for my son.
Unless, I read the OP's post incorrect his parents are not taking out the loan. This is on the soon to be cadet's dime.
I am not trying to flame. I am just saying you incurred that loan debt. In the OP's case, he is incurring the loan with a rigid repayment schedule.
~ You take it in your name as his parents. You turn and say we agree you will pay back the loan with specific terms. No legal documentation, just trust out of love. Banks typically don't have that same feeling when they say the repayment of 162.50 is due on the 1st compared to the parents. The kids will not call up the bank and say, OBTW, look I bought a new car, and bc I said yes to be the best man at my friend's wedding 2000 miles away which I have to fly to, and rent a hotel, would you mind if you don't ding my credit rating if I am a week late? The OP is stuck if their parents can't do that option which you were willing to do for your child.
It does not mean they don't love them less. It means this OP is on their own and this student loan debt is on their own dime.
Personally, for me, as a parent, my advice would be go ROTC at the non-SMC school.
Maybe, I am the only that saw this, but...
Key word MOREAs of right now, I’ve been accepted into my state scholar’s college with more than a full ride scholarship, which I also plan to participate in their ROTC program
I know with my DS's college, MORE included for the honors/scholars program, extra perks, such as a laptop, cost of books, fees etc.
People forget those little costs add up too.