My heart soars when we get an unexpected phone call from DS and he's excited and happy and telling us stuff we have no clue about! I've learned not to ask what he's referring to, just listen and throw in a "that's great" and "wow" when I have a chance to comment. He re-surfaced and called home yesterday - afterwards I asked if he was going out to DTA to celebrate later that evening. He replied, "No, I have a paper due." Amazing!