I'm very worried that the same will happen with my AROTC Scholarship. Is there any hope? Thanks. Sorry for the long post.
Yes, there is hope. But it will be challenging too.
Army ROTC and USMA have completely separate processes for evaluating waivers. It is arguable if one is more lenient than the other. Nonetheless, in your case, it is in the hands of AROTC Cadet Command.
Remember DoDMERB issues a Q or DQ. There is rarely a gray area. They have nothing to do with the waiver process which is conducted by each SA or ROTC program. Each program or SA will then evaluate your case and determine if your DQ is one that can be waived. In other words, it is a
risk management question: ....is this candidate likely to be impaired down the road and adversely impact our investment in him or her?
Here is a flow chart that illustrates the waiver process:
https://dodmerb.tricare.osd.mil/Content/MedicalWaiverConsideration.pdf
Don't forget, that you CAN appeal a denial of waiver.
Have your physician parents reach out to a military physician or a doctor who has previously served in the military. There is distinct language and terminology that may be problematic to your cause. Using the right language is critical. Also don't be too verbose! Make sure you address only the specific DQ and to not open up other "cans of worms."
Some folks on this forum have contacted a DoDMERB consultant to help optimize their chances.
With regard to your specific DQ issues, I am not a doctor, but there are others on this forum who are physicians with MIL experience and may chime in with a more medical oriented opinion.
Perhaps our ROO members,
@clarksonarmy and
@MohawkArmyROTC might offer up a perspective as well.
Update:
I see that
@GoCubbies has weighed in on the DoDMERB forum regarding your case. He is an excellent resource!